TEMECULA, Calif. - When Army Sergeant Ryan Kahlor returned from two combat tours in Iraq last year, he was a walking billboard for virtually every affliction suffered by today's veterans. He had a detached retina, a ruptured disk, vertigo, headaches, memory lapses, and numbness in his arms. Fluid seeped from his ears.
He was diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and traumatic brain injury. He was violent and suicidal. He carried a loaded handgun everywhere. He drank until he passed out. He cut himself. He burned his skin with cigarettes. He bit through his tongue just to watch himself bleed.
Kahlor, 24, admits he came back not caring about anyone - the military, his friends, his family, or himself. But, pushed hard by his parents, he slowly accepted and then embraced counseling and treatment. Today, he has begun to recover.
His parents are still trying.
The Kahlors - a college employee and a nurse - have fought through a series of transformations unfamiliar to most military families.
Tim Kahlor says he and his wife, Laura, have been left with what he calls, only half in jest, "secondary PTSD." He says his doctor prescribed antidepressants to help him cope with his son's ordeal. And both parents, haunted by their son's physical and emotional breakdown, are fiercely opposed to the war.
Tim Kahlor, 50, who had felt a patriotic surge after the Sept. 11, 2001, terrorist attacks, turned against the war after Ryan complained during his first tour about ineffective body armor and poorly armored vehicles. Laura Kahlor, 53, blames the war for her son's psychological and physical torment. Although she is now grateful for the treatment he belatedly received, she - like her husband - wishes they had never let Ryan enlist.
They are still bitter over the several months that their son drifted while they pleaded with both Ryan and the military for effective PTSD treatment. Ryan survived several roadside bomb attacks in Iraq but was traumatized by the violence he saw.
"I was so naive. I was this kid from the Bible Belt who thought our country would take care of our soldiers," Tim Kahlor said. "I have guilt for helping him get into this."
A year after the terrorists struck America, Tim Kahlor drove Ryan, then 18, to the local Army recruiting office to sign up. Although the Kahlors would have preferred that Ryan attend college, they were proud of his determination to serve his country.
When Ryan wrote about equipment shortages, Tim telephoned and wrote to the Pentagon and Congress. Laura sent Ryan a hand-held GPS device after he complained that military devices kept failing.
Tim Kahlor joined Military Families Speak Out, a group opposed to the Iraq war. He marched in protests behind caskets, lined up boots outside the Capitol to represent the war's dead. He put up a sign outside his home: "Support Our Troops - Let 'em Come Home."
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Random's Opinion on Warren.
The guys a bigoted asshole who's done a few good things.
And to ignore the guy because he's a bigoted asshole will ignore the good things he's done.
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Random's Opinion on Warren.
The guys a bigoted asshole who's done a few good things.
And to ignore the guy because he's a bigoted asshole will ignore the good things he's done.
I agree in principle with what you are saying here, Random. However, if the good things are outweighed by his bigoted assholeishness then you can ignore him and the good things he did. Let me jump right to the comparison with Hitler to get to the end of the argument quickly. Yeah Hitler came up with the autobahn, which is a great highway idea; but the genocide and destructive war cancel the autobahn out.
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Random's Opinion on Warren.
The guys a bigoted asshole who's done a few good things.
And to ignore the guy because he's a bigoted asshole will ignore the good things he's done.
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If Rick Warren had his way, he would oppress a certain class of people. These are the lesson of the past that we must not let happen. No he is not Hitler... he is, however -- an oppressor.
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The inaguration is going to be a good economic boost for DC, MD and VA. I know its going to be a good boost for our business, we already have winerys planning and marketing for this
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Random's Opinion on Warren.
The guys a bigoted asshole who's done a few good things.
And to ignore the guy because he's a bigoted asshole will ignore the good things he's done.
To take Mondo's view to less extremes:
Warren may have done a few good things, but that doesn't excuse him being a bigoted asshole.
His being in a position of authority and power amplifies his negatives, because his followers will take those positions and make them their own.
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The inaguration is going to be a good economic boost for DC, MD and VA. I know its going to be a good boost for our business, we already have winerys planning and marketing for this
Speaking of MD and VA....Uuummm....my friends and I drove 8 hours to Richmond on Saturday to see our friends Closing Night and it was FREEZING!!!! What gives!?!?
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So his negatives are inhanced, but his postives aren't?
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I've got to go, but I'll leave you with this to think about.
Jimmy Stewart, a great actor, has done some of the best films ever made, from a wide range of topics and themes. Jimmy Stewart is was a Republican that campaigned for Reagan and Nixon. Should his works in film be discounted because he helped some of the crookedest presidents get into office?
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The inaguration is going to be a good economic boost for DC, MD and VA. I know its going to be a good boost for our business, we already have winerys planning and marketing for this
Speaking of MD and VA....Uuummm....my friends and I drove 8 hours to Richmond on Saturday to see our friends Closing Night and it was FREEZING!!!! What gives!?!?
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it's like 30 degrees but that wind chill is just wicket cold...
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Sanchez from Montebello is Carlos Sanchez? DI dI hear him say that he was a guest mook?![]()
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the kittens are running amok!![]()
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the kittens are running amok!![]()
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the kittens are running amok!![]()
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If I have to sleep with gloves on, my landlady should be giving me some heat.
I've got the package from Clintster. Should I wait for him to show up to open it?
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Ya know, I like winter, but this is ridiculous!
I'm sitting here in the office with two layers on, wearing fingerless gloves, a blanket thrown over my chair as a heat trap, and my space heater blasting under the desk, and I am still uncomfortable.
I moved my thermometer; once I get an accurate reading it's off to building services.
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If I have to sleep with gloves on, my landlady should be giving me some heat.
I've got the package from Clintster. Should I wait for him to show up to open it?
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the kittens are running amok!![]()
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Burger King introduces beef scented Body Spray...
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Where did Liv go?
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Regarding Rick Warren:
It's a tough call. As a Gay Woman, his views are a personal affront to my life.
I agree that I think Obama is supporting him by default by giving him an opportunity to speak at this innauguration.
However, I am always hoping that people could change. And, I suppose I am curious to hear what he has to say. It feels like waiting for Hillary to give her concession speech. Will he unite? Will he divide? Is he having a change of heart? It is Christmas; season of supposed miracles. I don't know.
Again, I would have preferred Obama pick someone else. But, I am curious to see what the man has to say.
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I've got me a Pac-Man mug. Nothing like that retro charm. I can put my Hot Chocolate in it. Thanks, Clintster.
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Burger King introduces beef scented Body Spray...
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Burger King introduces beef scented Body Spray...
Sheesh, folks...I posted this *days* ago.
Of course, Burger King isn't exactly "meat".....
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Regarding Rick Warren:
It's a tough call. As a Gay Woman, his views are a personal affront to my life.
I agree that I think Obama is supporting him by default by giving him an opportunity to speak at this innauguration.
However, I am always hoping that people could change. And, I suppose I am curious to hear what he has to say. It feels like waiting for Hillary to give her concession speech. Will he unite? Will he divide? Is he having a change of heart? It is Christmas; season of supposed miracles. I don't know.
Again, I would have preferred Obama pick someone else. But, I am curious to see what the man has to say.
I kinda like what the good Dr Maddow said late last week about Warren. He is giving the opening prayer, which is where we have been. Civil Rights Pioneer (I forget his name, sorry) is giving the closing prayer, which is where we want to go. I kinda like the symbolism that Rachel was going for.
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Burger King introduces beef scented Body Spray...
Sheesh, folks...I posted this *days* ago.
Of course, Burger King isn't exactly "meat".....
Have you seen those Whopper Virgins ads? We take these people who have never touched fast food and are now going to ruin their eco-system and their diets just like we've done with millions of Westerners (especially Americans).
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Regarding Rick Warren:
It's a tough call. As a Gay Woman, his views are a personal affront to my life.
I agree that I think Obama is supporting him by default by giving him an opportunity to speak at this innauguration.
However, I am always hoping that people could change. And, I suppose I am curious to hear what he has to say. It feels like waiting for Hillary to give her concession speech. Will he unite? Will he divide? Is he having a change of heart? It is Christmas; season of supposed miracles. I don't know.
Again, I would have preferred Obama pick someone else. But, I am curious to see what the man has to say.
I kinda like what the good Dr Maddow said late last week about Warren. He is giving the opening prayer, which is where we have been. Civil Rights Pioneer (I forget his name, sorry) is giving the closing prayer, which is where we want to go. I kinda like the symbolism that Rachel was going for.
Yeah, that is true. Hopefully his mouth breathing followers understand that nuance.
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So his negatives are inhanced, but his postives aren't?
His overall impact on the world is more likely negative.
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: puts on rose colored glasses, pick a lolipop from the tree behind me: Here ya go :star:ling.
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So his negatives are inhanced, but his postives aren't?
His overall impact on the world is more likely negative.
Because he said shitty things? He hasn't done anything? just being an vocal asshole.
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: puts on rose colored glasses, pick a lolipop from the tree behind me: Here ya go :star:ling.
Are you saying I am naive??? MOI!?!?
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MN-Sen Recount Update - Al Franken now unofficially officialy leads by 48 votes, with not much left to count!
It's pretty much over except for the court challenges & appeals from Coleman. WOO!
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: puts on rose colored glasses, pick a lolipop from the tree behind me: Here ya go :star:ling.
Are you saying I am naive??? MOI!?!?
Oh dear, dear :star:ling. I would never say or even imply that! I am saying Rachel was. Yeah, Rachel Maddow. :wipes flop sweat from forehead:
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So his negatives are inhanced, but his postives aren't?
His overall impact on the world is more likely negative.
Because he said shitty things? He hasn't done anything? just being an vocal asshole.
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So his negatives are inhanced, but his postives aren't?
His overall impact on the world is more likely negative.
Because he said shitty things? He hasn't done anything? just being an vocal asshole.
Being in a position of authority where he is effectively telling his mouth breathing followers to be hateful assholes he has done something. Propogating fucked up mean, dickwads that think it is okay to take away right previously granted to people. Don't forget Warren's church is in oh so "liberal" California.
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So his negatives are inhanced, but his postives aren't?
His overall impact on the world is more likely negative.
Because he said shitty things? He hasn't done anything? just being an vocal asshole.
Actually -- he pretty openly campaigned for Prop 8.
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Robots are wannabe
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Robots are wannabe
Personally, I am far more worried about zombies than robots. There will be more of them than robots. Robots can't turn you into a robot like a zombie can turn you into a zombie.
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Robots are wannabe
Personally, I am far more worried about zombies than robots. There will be more of them than robots. Robots can't turn you into a robot like a zombie can turn you into a zombie.
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So his negatives are inhanced, but his postives aren't?
His overall impact on the world is more likely negative.
Because he said shitty things? He hasn't done anything? just being an vocal asshole.
Actually -- he pretty openly campaigned for Prop 8.
which is what? being a vocal asshole? he supported something, didn't create it, didn't start it, just apart of a bad part of society. One is not just what bad they do, but also the good. You should see both, not just one side because of your own prejudices.
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Speaking of Zombies, one of my theaters in CT is doing NIght of the Musical Dead in July. It's an original show, script and music by our Tech Director, Bil.
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Speaking of Zombies, one of my theaters in CT is doing NIght of the Musical Dead in July. It's an original show, script and music by our Tech Director, Bil.
ooOOoo are you going to audition?
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MN-Sen Recount Update - Al Franken now unofficially officialy leads by 48 votes, with not much left to count!
It's pretty much over except for the court challenges & appeals from Coleman. WOO!
What was the number that Nate Silver gave? wasn't it a Franken win by 37 votes or something like that?
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Robots are wannabe
Personally, I am far more worried about zombies than robots. There will be more of them than robots. Robots can't turn you into a robot like a zombie can turn you into a zombie.
What about the Borg?
Well they're cybernetic beings, but basically the same thing.
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What would singing zombies sound like?
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Robots are wannabe
Personally, I am far more worried about zombies than robots. There will be more of them than robots. Robots can't turn you into a robot like a zombie can turn you into a zombie.
What about the Borg?
Well they're cybernetic beings, but basically the same thing.
Good point, but since the Borg use Unix as an OS and don't seem to use any advanced encryption, they are vulerable to all kinds of attacks on their network. Blatherblatherblather.
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It took a lot of arm turning to get me to do the vocal demo. I haven't sung in front of people since High School, and never in a studio! Plus, the song was written a LOT lower than my voice's range. But, I did the best I could.
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Robots are wannabe
Personally, I am far more worried about zombies than robots. There will be more of them than robots. Robots can't turn you into a robot like a zombie can turn you into a zombie.
What about the Borg?
Well they're cybernetic beings, but basically the same thing.
Good point, but since the Borg use Unix as an OS and don't seem to use any advanced encryption, they are vulerable to all kinds of attacks on their network. Blatherblatherblather.
I can't believe you know that. ;)
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What would singing zombies sound like?
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And now.. your midday coffee break. Enjoy!
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Rick Warren *Out of the Closet*...
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CNN really is this pathetic. A-fucking-mazing.
Seems like a bit of an odd time to pardon a guy who pled guilty to the relatively minor charges of making false statements to HUD and mail fraud amid an investigation of a massive housing scam that involved allegedly sticking the victims, homebuyers, with ballooning mortgages.
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CNN really is this pathetic. A-fucking-mazing.
WTF... if I recall correctly McCain was the king of the BBQ for the traveling press...
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Dead man recieves calls from the grave. This is just strange.
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CNN really is this pathetic. A-fucking-mazing.
WTF... if I recall correctly McCain was the king of the BBQ for the traveling press...
So, they act like they are "independent" when a Democrat is president but when it's a Republican President or candidate they will bend over backwards and kiss ass for access and have no problem with free perks then.
Liberal media my ass.![]()
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Dead man recieves calls from the grave. This is just strange.
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I found myself on a very unique side of a talk about the war in Iraq today. I was in the nail salon getting my nails done when i started talking with a woman about my age 48 she said she had a son who would have been 27 in Jan and i said my son would be 28 in Jan. Her son was a Navy corpman and was killed by a sniper in Iraq 4 years ago. What really intiriuged me was when i thanked her for her sons sacrifice she quietly started to cry and told me how she had met with his unit a group of Marines and how all of them including her son had one mission to be allowed to finish the mission they had been ordered to start. She quietly told me about her sons full faith and belief in what he was doing. She asked me to think of her son and all those young men and women living and dead in my prayers. She said if we leave and Iraq falls into a country ran by radicals then my sons death will be in vain. She said that would be more painful to her than losing him was. Needless to say i was confused and suprised her quiet dignity and firm faith in our young men and women was so strong you could feel it. And no matter your opinion this woman walks the walk and talks the talk she knows what and who she believes in and why. God bless her and all the sons and daughters.
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You know what the really disturbing part of the article is? The ads embedded as hyperlinks in the actual story.
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Dead man recieves calls from the grave. This is just strange.
I read the comments. And the only one who needs more counseling than that wife (because paying $55 in fees a month for a dead man is insane) is this commenter mareep: "Isn't anyone sickened by this? "His beloved cell phone"? More like surrogate, socially acceptable plastic penis!"
This person has issues...
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Dead man recieves calls from the grave. This is just strange.
I read the comments. And the only one who needs more counseling than that wife (because paying $55 in fees a month for a dead man is insane) is this commenter mareep: "Isn't anyone sickened by this? "His beloved cell phone"? More like surrogate, socially acceptable plastic penis!"
This person has issues...
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Dead man recieves calls from the grave. This is just strange.
I read the comments. And the only one who needs more counseling than that wife (because paying $55 in fees a month for a dead man is insane) is this commenter mareep: "Isn't anyone sickened by this? "His beloved cell phone"? More like surrogate, socially acceptable plastic penis!"
This person has issues...
She needs to work on letting go... it is rather sad and pathetic, actually.
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Since i don't really want to subject you to all of this god-awful show, and Fran...whatever her name is. The Nanny woman. Just watch his stand-up in the front half...and if you're brave...continue on.
Click the link...watch the show