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The Burden is on the Victim
Author: Raine    Date: 11/20/2013 13:58:58

Yesterday we learned that Trayvon Martin's killer was released on $9000 bail after being arrested for yet another domestic violence incident. From the Daily Beast:
The man who shot Trayvon Martin allegedly choked his girlfriend, prompting a judge to ban him from weapons use. Prosecutors say he has ‘nothing to lose’ and is a public threat.

George Zimmerman attempted to choke his girlfriend 10 days ago and has threatened suicide because he feels he has “nothing to lose,” prosecutors told a Florida judge today. (snip)

Scheibe did not report the alleged choking to police, said the prosecutor, adding, however: “She did fear for her safety on the day of this incident. She indicated that they had been discussing breaking up. He also has mentioned suicide in the recent past. Due to those factors and the defendant indicating at the time he was going to commit suicide, that he had nothing to lose, we feel that the victim’s safety and the community’s safety is our paramount concern.”

Zimmerman is charged with felony aggravated assault, plus one count of misdemeanor battery—for allegedly pushing Scheibe out of her own front door during their row and barricading himself inside—and another of criminal mischief, for allegedly smashing some of her possessions including a glass table.
At least this time he was arrested. A few months ago, that wasn't the case, as his estranged wife didn't press charges. The man has a history of violence. He's never truly been held responsible for his actions; he knows how to work the system.
August 2005, Zimmerman’s former fiancee filed for a restraining order against him, alleging domestic violence. Zimmerman responded by requesting a restraining order against her. Both requests were granted. No criminal charges were filed.
This week we saw a very similar situation. His Girlfriend, Samantha Scheibe called 911 after he pointed a gun at her. She was locked out of her home and called authorities. At that point, Zimmernman called 911 himself - to tell his side of the story.
Zimmerman told his girlfriend to leave and smashed a pair of her sunglasses as she walked toward the front door, the report says. Scheibe told deputies he pushed her out of the house when she got close to the door.

"You point your gun at my fricking face," Scheibe is heard telling Zimmerman on a 911 call. "Get out of my house. Do not push me out of my house. Please get out of my house."

Seconds later, she told the dispatcher, "You kidding me? He pushed me out of my house and locked me out. ... He knows how to do this. He knows how to play this game."

Moments later, Zimmerman called 911 from inside the barricaded house to tell his side of the story.

"I have a girlfriend, who for lack of a better word, has gone crazy on me," Zimmerman said.

Zimmerman then said he never pulled a gun on his girlfriend and that it was she who smashed a table at the home they shared. He also told the dispatcher that Scheibe was pregnant with their child and that she had decided she would raise the child on her own. When Zimmerman started to leave, "she got mad," he said.
You see what's going on here? He's blaming the woman for his actions. Just like he blamed Trayvon, he blamed his estranged wife. All of these incidents over the past 8 years, it was always someone else' fault.

And through it all -- he was always given his precious guns back -- until yesterday. Prosectors say he has ‘nothing to lose’ and is a public threat. "Due to those factors and the defendant indicating at the time he was going to commit suicide, that he had nothing to lose, we feel that the victim’s safety and the community’s safety is our paramount concern."

If he wasn't thought to be suicidal, he'd still have those guns. His girlfriend and estranged wife would still be fearful for their lives, and may have to again if these charges are dropped or if he is found not guilty.

The sad part about this is this: If this had happened in a bar, or at a party, we wouldn't be discussing this in the framework of domestic violence. He would have been in jail for assault. Once again the burden is on the victim of domestic violence. This is why we have federal laws on violence against women. All that said - until state and local governments help by taking the burden of guilt off the victim, more women will suffer.

Now, I'd like to tell you a story.

One night many years ago, a 17 year old was witness to a violent situation. A rifle was involved. A man was verbally abusing a woman. The police were called by a third party (the 17 year old) After informing law enforcement about what had and was happening, the police went to question the parties involved. As a result, the man claimed the woman was the provoker. It was at that point police said they couldn't remove him from the house. Law enforcement informed the woman that they couldn't press charges. She had no physical injuries to prove her claims. They couldn't remove the man from the home without her further provoking an already violent situation by pressing charges. So - she did. Then the man pressed charges against her. He also informed the police that charges should be pressed against the 17 year old witness. Police talked the man out of that charge. Both adults were taken away from the home is separate police vehicles.

Did I mention that this incident happened in spite of an order of protection that had expired just a few days before? Oh, no I didn't. The order of protection was for 6 weeks, as a cooling off period due to prior domestic incidents. After it expired, he moved back into the home. What happened after the arrest is mind boggling.

The woman was ordered by a judge to stay away from the home, along with her 3 children. The man moved back into the house, by himself. This in effect made her homeless. She stayed with friends, her oldest stayed with friends. the youngest children stayed with family a few hours away. It took nearly a month to find an apartment she could afford with room enough for her and the kids. They never returned to live in the house.

This happened because she wasn't physically injured enough to prove she was a victim of domestic violence after an order of protection had expired.

In that vein, I believe George Zimmerman should never be allowed to own a gun again. Unfortunately, by the time that happens it may very well be too late for the next victim. He knows how to play the game. A 17 year old many years ago saw how it was played.

and
Rainie
 

53 comments (Latest Comment: 11/20/2013 22:27:36 by Mondobubba)
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