BOSTON --
With 2,000 American military personnel injured in action since the beginning of the year, 2010 may be one of the worst years for troops being wounded in Afghanistan. Now, many of them have gone from fighting on the war front to a very different battle on the home front.
NewsCenter 5's Liz Brunner traveled to Washington, D.C., to the Walter Reed Army Medical Center Hospital to meet with Sgt. Brendan Ferreira, 23, from Assonet.
"Iraq is more like being a police officer and Afghanistan is more like a real war," he said. "You can't let your guard down in that country. Somebody strapped a bunch of bombs to themselves and ran up behind me. I knew I lost my hand in the explosion. They didn't know if I was going to make it."
Those are the memories of March 9, 2010, that Ferreira carries with him every day. Days before his 23rd birthday, a suicide bomber attack in Afghanistan killed two of his fellow soldiers and left him critically injured.
Ferreira's mother, Lisa, said the Army official who called to tell them about their son said he had been very seriously injured.
Ferreira lost his left arm below his elbow, had a compound fracture in his right leg, a severed artery in his left leg, shrapnel injuries and burns to his face and body, 10 stitches in his eye, total hearing loss in his left ear and half of his hearing was gone in his right ear.
Lisa and Michael Ferreira said they didn't even recognize their own son when they first saw him at the Walter Reed Army Medical Center.
"He was so swollen," Michael Ferreira said.
"I think the only reason why we knew it was him was when we looked at his left arm and he had his tattoos and we said, 'That's Brendan,'" Lisa Ferreira said.
Ferreira grew up in Assonet. After high school, he became a professional arborist, but held a secret desire to join the military. After serving 14 months in Iraq, he went to Afghanistan. Ferreira has earned two Purple Hearts.
From his hospital bed, Ferreira said his work is not done.
"If I could suddenly grow my arm back, just for the rest of the time that my soldiers are there, and get my sight back and get everything back, instead of running home and enjoying it, I would run right back over there and help them," he said.
But months of healing, therapy, learning how to use a prosthetic arm, standing and trying to walk again lie ahead of Ferreira.
His parents said it has been a difficult journey to watch.
"As a mom, you're supposed to be the one to take that all away. I can't take that away from him. He has to go through it," Lisa Ferreira said.
"I cry every day. But I got to stay strong for him," Michael Ferreira said.
The Ferreiras said they feel very fortunate that their son is alive and came home and that they can talk to him and feel him. They said they feel bad for the families that can't do that.
Lisa Ferreira said it pains her to think about the families of her son's two friends who were killed in the attack.
"Their son came home in a box," she said.
When I was a kid in the 1970s, I loved reading accounts of American heroism from World War II. I remember being riveted by a book about the staunch Marine defenders of Wake Island and inspired by John F. Kennedy's exploits saving the sailors he commanded on PT-109. Closer to home, I had an uncle -- like so many vets of that war, relatively silent on his own experiences -- who had been at Pearl Harbor when the Japanese attacked on December 7, 1941, and then fought them in a brutal campaign on Guadalcanal, where he earned a Bronze Star. Such men seemed like heroes to me, so it came as something of a shock when, in 1980, I first heard Yoda's summary of war in The Empire Strikes Back. Luke Skywalker, if you remember, tells the wizened Jedi master that he seeks "a great warrior." "Wars not make one great," Yoda replies.
Okay, it was George Lucas talking, I suppose, but I was struck by the truth of that statement. Of course, my little epiphany didn't come just because of Yoda or Lucas. By my late teens, even as I was gearing up for a career in the military, I had already begun to wonder about the common ethos that linked heroism to military service and war. Certainly, military service (especially the life-and-death struggles of combat) provides an occasion for the exercise of heroism, but even then I instinctively knew that it didn't constitute heroism.
Ever since the events of 9/11, there's been an almost religious veneration of U.S. service members as "Our American Heroes" (as a well-intentioned sign puts it at my local post office). That a snappy uniform or even intense combat in far-off countries don't magically transform troops into heroes seems a simple point to make, but it's one worth making again and again, and not only to impressionable, military-worshipping teenagers.
Here, then, is what I mean by "hero": someone who behaves selflessly, usually at considerable personal risk and sacrifice, to comfort or empower others and to make the world a better place. Heroes, of course, come in all sizes, shapes, ages, and colors, most of them looking nothing like John Wayne or John Rambo or GI Joe (or Jane).
"Hero," sadly, is now used far too cavalierly. Sportscasters, for example, routinely refer to highly paid jocks who hit walk-off home runs or score game-winning touchdowns as heroes. Even though I come from a family of firefighters (and one police officer), the most heroic person I've ever known was neither a firefighter nor a cop nor a jock: She was my mother, a homemaker who raised five kids and endured without complaint the ravages of cancer in the 1970s, with its then crude chemotherapy regimen, its painful cobalt treatments, the collateral damage of loss of hair, vitality, and lucidity. In refusing to rail against her fate or to take her pain out on others, she set an example of selfless courage and heroism I'll never forget.
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Morning, comrades.
I'm a bit perturbed this morning...I ran a cost/benefit analysis for riding the train next month...it's significantly cheaper for me to drive. I'd need gas to be about $6 a gallon in order to break even.
Sure, I want to do the right thing, but money in my pocket is more important right now.
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Morning, comrades.
I'm a bit perturbed this morning...I ran a cost/benefit analysis for riding the train next month...it's significantly cheaper for me to drive. I'd need gas to be about $6 a gallon in order to break even.
Sure, I want to do the right thing, but money in my pocket is more important right now.
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It's pretty much even-steven for me, because I have $4 in tolls for the round trip. I need to recalc my Metro costs, since the fares went up a few weeks ago (and will go up again next week).
Regardless, I enjoy being able to read the paper instead of giving my feet a workout with the clutch and brake
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good morning!
Quote by TriSec:
Morning, comrades.
I'm a bit perturbed this morning...I ran a cost/benefit analysis for riding the train next month...it's significantly cheaper for me to drive. I'd need gas to be about $6 a gallon in order to break even.
Sure, I want to do the right thing, but money in my pocket is more important right now.
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Morning, comrades.
I'm a bit perturbed this morning...I ran a cost/benefit analysis for riding the train next month...it's significantly cheaper for me to drive. I'd need gas to be about $6 a gallon in order to break even.
Sure, I want to do the right thing, but money in my pocket is more important right now.
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It's pretty much even-steven for me, because I have $4 in tolls for the round trip. I need to recalc my Metro costs, since the fares went up a few weeks ago (and will go up again next week).
Regardless, I enjoy being able to read the paper instead of giving my feet a workout with the clutch and brake
I bet I could find you all the old roads to help avoid the tolls - might take a little longer though![]()
The cost and time for me to take public transit doesn't pan out either - that's the one thing the sucks being a little farther out in the Xurbs
I hope you will join me in standing firmly on the side of the people. You see, the growing surplus exists because taxes are too high and government is charging more than it needs. The people of America have been overcharged and, on their behalf, I am here asking for a refund.
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Raine, did you get my email with the Rules of Conduct and the Mission Statement attached?
Quote by Al from WV:Quote by wickedpam:Quote by BobR:Quote by TriSec:
Morning, comrades.
I'm a bit perturbed this morning...I ran a cost/benefit analysis for riding the train next month...it's significantly cheaper for me to drive. I'd need gas to be about $6 a gallon in order to break even.
Sure, I want to do the right thing, but money in my pocket is more important right now.
![]()
It's pretty much even-steven for me, because I have $4 in tolls for the round trip. I need to recalc my Metro costs, since the fares went up a few weeks ago (and will go up again next week).
Regardless, I enjoy being able to read the paper instead of giving my feet a workout with the clutch and brake
I bet I could find you all the old roads to help avoid the tolls - might take a little longer though![]()
The cost and time for me to take public transit doesn't pan out either - that's the one thing the sucks being a little farther out in the Xurbs
I'm sure you could find him all the old roads... Basically 7, left on 606, etc... Problem is, in my experience, at 2.50/gal, I saved enough gas on the toll road vs 7 to make up the toll and more. With the toll higher now.... not sure.
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Hmm, since we don't have a 'lair' anymore, let's throw this out for everyone to chew on.
With our forum dead, instead of trying to re-invent the wheel, how about we linkup with UNN? I think most of us are members over there, and we're familiar with the forum structure.
I know we had a button up top to our old forum, Bob could just as easily put a link to UNN, yes?
< thinking out loud >
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Morning, comrades.
I'm a bit perturbed this morning...I ran a cost/benefit analysis for riding the train next month...it's significantly cheaper for me to drive. I'd need gas to be about $6 a gallon in order to break even.
Sure, I want to do the right thing, but money in my pocket is more important right now.
![]()
It's pretty much even-steven for me, because I have $4 in tolls for the round trip. I need to recalc my Metro costs, since the fares went up a few weeks ago (and will go up again next week).
Regardless, I enjoy being able to read the paper instead of giving my feet a workout with the clutch and brake
I bet I could find you all the old roads to help avoid the tolls - might take a little longer though![]()
The cost and time for me to take public transit doesn't pan out either - that's the one thing the sucks being a little farther out in the Xurbs
I'm sure you could find him all the old roads... Basically 7, left on 606, etc... Problem is, in my experience, at 2.50/gal, I saved enough gas on the toll road vs 7 to make up the toll and more. With the toll higher now.... not sure.
7's a nightmare - I never tell anyone to drive on 7. In fact I can't wait for them to finish the metro station at Tysons so I can park at Dunn Loring or Vienna at Christmas and metro over to tysons to shop - I hate driving over there! It was always bad but ever since they made Tysons 2 floors its gone down hill
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Nobody is allowed to shop at the LL Bean at Tyson's Corner. They are our enemy.
(No, really...after the Mothership, it's between Burlington (my store) and Tyson's to round out the top 3. We take this stuff pretty seriously.)
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Shrug... drove it for ages while my office was off 7 and 395. Pain? yeah, some, but what I found worse was the City of Falls Church cops that would ticket for 38 in a 35. By the time I got through that, the three lights passing Tyson's were no big deal. Heck, the worst part now is the construction where they are removing the service road remnants between the Toll Road and 123.
One person's "too much for me" is another's "I don't mind" and they are both right, for themselves...
Hope things are well with you guys, Pam. Take care.
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Nobody is allowed to shop at the LL Bean at Tyson's Corner. They are our enemy.
(No, really...after the Mothership, it's between Burlington (my store) and Tyson's to round out the top 3. We take this stuff pretty seriously.)
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Shrug... drove it for ages while my office was off 7 and 395. Pain? yeah, some, but what I found worse was the City of Falls Church cops that would ticket for 38 in a 35. By the time I got through that, the three lights passing Tyson's were no big deal. Heck, the worst part now is the construction where they are removing the service road remnants between the Toll Road and 123.
One person's "too much for me" is another's "I don't mind" and they are both right, for themselves...
Hope things are well with you guys, Pam. Take care.
So far so good - just some neighborhood asshatery drama but all in all we're doin' okay in the wilds of Manassas![]()
Hope things are going well for you guys too![]()
Quote by wickedpam:Quote by TriSec:
Nobody is allowed to shop at the LL Bean at Tyson's Corner. They are our enemy.
(No, really...after the Mothership, it's between Burlington (my store) and Tyson's to round out the top 3. We take this stuff pretty seriously.)
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but, but, but I can't always get the stuff I need from the catalog! *pouts*
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Ya know, Al, one of these nights, We'd love to have you over for dinner. Yes, that is an official invitation. That is if Mrs. Al doesn't mind.. :)
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Ya know, Al, one of these nights, We'd love to have you over for dinner. Yes, that is an official invitation. That is if Mrs. Al doesn't mind..![]()
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Ya know, Al, one of these nights, We'd love to have you over for dinner. Yes, that is an official invitation. That is if Mrs. Al doesn't mind.. :)
Deeply appreciated. Mrs. Al will be a problem. I'll explain offline.
Quote by Al from WV:Quote by wickedpam:Quote by TriSec:
Nobody is allowed to shop at the LL Bean at Tyson's Corner. They are our enemy.
(No, really...after the Mothership, it's between Burlington (my store) and Tyson's to round out the top 3. We take this stuff pretty seriously.)
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Then obviously, you need to go into Bean in Tysons, identify the item (with SKU) that you want, email Tri the SKU, and have him have his store contact you for shipping and payment info.
but, but, but I can't always get the stuff I need from the catalog! *pouts*
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but, but, but I can't always get the stuff I need from the catalog! *pouts*
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I haven't been in Bean since my buddy who used to be a fly fishing instructor there left to be the Riverkeeper for the Shenandoah River. No worries here, and I won't be slipping over to the Orvis store, either. Walk in there with a hillbilly accent and they damn near want to put protective coveralls, boots, and gloves on you. Dare to mention that you only fly fish for smallmouth and they get out the rail, tar, and feathers.
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but, but, but I can't always get the stuff I need from the catalog! *pouts*
:blink:
Right out of our playbook:
"We're a small store, so we don't always carry the entire product line. If you can get to Freeport (It's only 2 hours from Burlington), they always have the entire product line all the time. Otherwise, let me check online for you, we can always get everything through the catalog."
The only caveat...once something is sold out, they pull the listing from the website.
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Morning, comrades.
I'm a bit perturbed this morning...I ran a cost/benefit analysis for riding the train next month...it's significantly cheaper for me to drive. I'd need gas to be about $6 a gallon in order to break even.
Sure, I want to do the right thing, but money in my pocket is more important right now.
![]()
It's pretty much even-steven for me, because I have $4 in tolls for the round trip. I need to recalc my Metro costs, since the fares went up a few weeks ago (and will go up again next week).
Regardless, I enjoy being able to read the paper instead of giving my feet a workout with the clutch and brake
I bet I could find you all the old roads to help avoid the tolls - might take a little longer though![]()
The cost and time for me to take public transit doesn't pan out either - that's the one thing the sucks being a little farther out in the Xurbs
I'm sure you could find him all the old roads... Basically 7, left on 606, etc... Problem is, in my experience, at 2.50/gal, I saved enough gas on the toll road vs 7 to make up the toll and more. With the toll higher now.... not sure.
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I know, I've been trying for 3 years to get my mom some snow sneakers with velcro - those suckers fly out of the warehouse!
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I know, I've been trying for 3 years to get my mom some snow sneakers with velcro - those suckers fly out of the warehouse!
Well, try checking now..although it's early. Best time would be October. I'll remember to keep an eye out; as soon as I see the winter catalog in the break room, I'll let you know. (we get it about 3 weeks ahead of the public release.)
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Good day folks. Was up late playing with the cat again. Even when I'm off I still end up going to bed late. At least I got to hear Momma's show.
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Good day folks. Was up late playing with the cat again. Even when I'm off I still end up going to bed late. At least I got to hear Momma's show.
But playing with a pet is good for your health, lowers your stress and all![]()
Making 1st public statement on the leaked material, Obama said they spotight the same problems that led him to review US policy last fall.
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Good day folks. Was up late playing with the cat again. Even when I'm off I still end up going to bed late. At least I got to hear Momma's show.
But playing with a pet is good for your health, lowers your stress and all![]()
Until you get another reminder in the mail of what a mess your financial situation is.![]()
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Morning, comrades.
I'm a bit perturbed this morning...I ran a cost/benefit analysis for riding the train next month...it's significantly cheaper for me to drive. I'd need gas to be about $6 a gallon in order to break even.
Sure, I want to do the right thing, but money in my pocket is more important right now.
![]()
It's pretty much even-steven for me, because I have $4 in tolls for the round trip. I need to recalc my Metro costs, since the fares went up a few weeks ago (and will go up again next week).
Regardless, I enjoy being able to read the paper instead of giving my feet a workout with the clutch and brake
I bet I could find you all the old roads to help avoid the tolls - might take a little longer though![]()
The cost and time for me to take public transit doesn't pan out either - that's the one thing the sucks being a little farther out in the Xurbs
I'm sure you could find him all the old roads... Basically 7, left on 606, etc... Problem is, in my experience, at 2.50/gal, I saved enough gas on the toll road vs 7 to make up the toll and more. With the toll higher now.... not sure.
Gas cost: (56 miles / round trip) * (1 Gal / 25 MPG) * ($2.75 / 1 Gal) = $6.16/round trip
Add the $4.00 in tolls and it costs $10.16 round trip to drive. Last time I checked it was about $7.75 round trip to ride the bus. I will be checking it again this afternoon to see what it's costing now for the Metro. After Aug 1, it will go up again, so I will need to recalc again.
There is also the wear & tear on the truck to consider and the maintenance costs that entails, plus the intangible wear and tear on my psyche from the drive. For less money and only an additional 15-30 minutes each way, I can relax and enjoy the ride.
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Good day folks. Was up late playing with the cat again. Even when I'm off I still end up going to bed late. At least I got to hear Momma's show.
But playing with a pet is good for your health, lowers your stress and all![]()
Until you get another reminder in the mail of what a mess your financial situation is.![]()
You really sound like you are doing much better than a year or so ago. Don't let a silly piece of paper bring you down. Baby steps forward.
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I haven't been in Bean since my buddy who used to be a fly fishing instructor there left to be the Riverkeeper for the Shenandoah River. No worries here, and I won't be slipping over to the Orvis store, either. Walk in there with a hillbilly accent and they damn near want to put protective coveralls, boots, and gloves on you. Dare to mention that you only fly fish for smallmouth and they get out the rail, tar, and feathers.
Well geez, Al...you need to get to Burlington. They always look askance at me when I'm checking out the spinning or baitcasting stuff. It's all fly-guys here.
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Morning, comrades.
I'm a bit perturbed this morning...I ran a cost/benefit analysis for riding the train next month...it's significantly cheaper for me to drive. I'd need gas to be about $6 a gallon in order to break even.
Sure, I want to do the right thing, but money in my pocket is more important right now.
![]()
It's pretty much even-steven for me, because I have $4 in tolls for the round trip. I need to recalc my Metro costs, since the fares went up a few weeks ago (and will go up again next week).
Regardless, I enjoy being able to read the paper instead of giving my feet a workout with the clutch and brake
I bet I could find you all the old roads to help avoid the tolls - might take a little longer though![]()
The cost and time for me to take public transit doesn't pan out either - that's the one thing the sucks being a little farther out in the Xurbs
I'm sure you could find him all the old roads... Basically 7, left on 606, etc... Problem is, in my experience, at 2.50/gal, I saved enough gas on the toll road vs 7 to make up the toll and more. With the toll higher now.... not sure.
Gas cost: (56 miles / round trip) * (1 Gal / 25 MPG) * ($2.75 / 1 Gal) = $6.16/round trip
Add the $4.00 in tolls and it costs $10.16 round trip to drive. Last time I checked it was about $7.75 round trip to ride the bus. I will be checking it again this afternoon to see what it's costing now for the Metro. After Aug 1, it will go up again, so I will need to recalc again.
There is also the wear & tear on the truck to consider and the maintenance costs that entails, plus the intangible wear and tear on my psyche from the drive. For less money and only an additional 15-30 minutes each way, I can relax and enjoy the ride.
There is also the wear & tear on the truck to consider and the maintenance costs that entails, plus the intangible wear and tear on my psyche from the drive. For less money and only an additional 15-30 minutes each way, I can relax and enjoy the ride.
Oddly, I was put onto the WalMart deal by one of the instructors from your mothership store... chuckle...
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There is also the wear & tear on the truck to consider and the maintenance costs that entails, plus the intangible wear and tear on my psyche from the drive. For less money and only an additional 15-30 minutes each way, I can relax and enjoy the ride.
I kinda think that way. I love walking through parts of Boston in the summer...with the seabreeze, it's usually quite nice. Wear and tear on the car is secondary; I would only save money if I pulled off the plate and cancelled the insurance, I regard that as a fixed cost either way. Curiously, my ride inbound is only 10 minutes longer than driving...the time to walk to the station. Coming home is longer, though.
Oddly, I was put onto the WalMart deal by one of the instructors from your mothership store... chuckle...
Well damn, it wasn't Charles Gould was it? He's always telling me to check out the gear at Wal-Mart. Better price than ours, and "just fine for a beginner".
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Good day folks. Was up late playing with the cat again. Even when I'm off I still end up going to bed late. At least I got to hear Momma's show.
But playing with a pet is good for your health, lowers your stress and all![]()
Until you get another reminder in the mail of what a mess your financial situation is.![]()
You really sound like you are doing much better than a year or so ago. Don't let a silly piece of paper bring you down. Baby steps forward.
Exactly! That paper doesn't hold any power, you do. I agree you sound like you're in a better place then a year ago - build you lego empire one brick at a time![]()
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Gas cost: (56 miles / round trip) * (1 Gal / 25 MPG) * ($2.75 / 1 Gal) = $6.16/round trip
Add the $4.00 in tolls and it costs $10.16 round trip to drive. Last time I checked it was about $7.75 round trip to ride the bus. I will be checking it again this afternoon to see what it's costing now for the Metro. After Aug 1, it will go up again, so I will need to recalc again.
There is also the wear & tear on the truck to consider and the maintenance costs that entails, plus the intangible wear and tear on my psyche from the drive. For less money and only an additional 15-30 minutes each way, I can relax and enjoy the ride.
That is exactly the calculation that 90% of the people fail to make, well that a lot of them fail to make. Your last criterion is the most important, what does either do for you? For me, mine means freedom to go any direction after work, if/when the notion strikes me. That's for ME, however, it may not mean one whit to YOU (or any of the gazillion other YOUs out there). It's that personal freedom/liberty/responsibility thing, at it's core...
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Wear and tear on the car is secondary; I would only save money if I pulled off the plate and cancelled the insurance, I regard that as a fixed cost either way.
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Gas cost: (56 miles / round trip) * (1 Gal / 25 MPG) * ($2.75 / 1 Gal) = $6.16/round trip
Add the $4.00 in tolls and it costs $10.16 round trip to drive. Last time I checked it was about $7.75 round trip to ride the bus. I will be checking it again this afternoon to see what it's costing now for the Metro. After Aug 1, it will go up again, so I will need to recalc again.
There is also the wear & tear on the truck to consider and the maintenance costs that entails, plus the intangible wear and tear on my psyche from the drive. For less money and only an additional 15-30 minutes each way, I can relax and enjoy the ride.
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regarding the blog, I know you miss your outlet for certain things (Like the drones and Baghdad Bombs). Perhaps we can figure out something for the blog here for semi-permament ongoing entries...