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It's not just No to H8
Author: Raine    Date: 11/17/2008 13:34:21

Now is the time to keep pushing forward. Now is the time to not give up, to not get complacent. Now is the time to be very aware of everything that is happening.

If a well organized group of people can use the Constitution to take away one group's rights , then who is next? It's a fair and valid question to ask, and not one without precident in America. We must ask this question because we are all in jeopardy of having what so many in our nation have fought for, taken away.

We went to our city's capitol building to stand beside our GBLT brothers and sisters in America to protest not only Prop 8, but all of the ballot initiatives that have gone before and are still to come in America. We stood against prop 2 in Florida, and we stood against Arizona and Arkansas, and even our own state that passed Constitutional Amendment 1 in 2004:
Shall the Constitution be amended so as to provide that this state shall recognize as marriage only the union of man and woman? This first paragraph of this proposal provides that Georgia shall recognize as marriage only the union of man and woman and prohibits marriages between persons of the same sex in this state. The second paragraph of this proposal further provides that the state: (1) shall not recognize any union between persons of the same sex as being entitled to the benefits of marriage; (2) shall not give effect to any public act, record, or judicial proceeding of any other state or jurisdiction respecting a relationship between persons of the same sex where that relationship is treated as a marriage under the laws of such other state or jurisdiction; and (3) removes from the jurisdiction of Georgia's courts the ability to grant a divorce or separate maintenance or otherwise consider or rule on parties' rights arising from or in connection with such a same sex relationship.
That ballot stripped away not only the rights of Gay couples, but also the rights of their children. Georgia has no work protection to people who are not hetrosexual.

In 2006, we had Arizona Prop 107, Colorado Prop 43, Alabama Marriage Act, Idaho Amendment 2, South Carolina, South Dakota Amendment C, Tennessee Marriage Act, Virginia Marriage Act, and Wisconsin Question One. We all know about this year.

For many this is a battle for gay rights, but I see it as far more. This is about equality in our oft inequal country. We have fought to make Americans equal since the very beginning of our nation and we must continue to do so. That is the Promise of the United States of America; we the people can make change. It is not only our right but our responsibilty to make sure no one is disenfranchised.

Laws have been wrong in the past and that is why we have the ability to change them and overturn and find them unconstitutional. And marriage for all is just one of those things that we have to work on.

It's not one law... It's the over 1000 federal rights that hetrosexuals have in a marriage that homosexuals are not allowed to have. In Georgia, there are about another 400 state rights that were stripped away in 2004.

And the religious right would have you believe it's about morality and the sanctity of marriage. This comes from the Morman Church, whose history includes polygamy, child abuse and racism within their own church; from the Christian Fundamentalists who would tell you that sex is for procreation only, that abstinence is holy, as their teens find skyrocketing pregnancy rates and STD numbers going through the roof. Then there are the Catholics, who have a few issues of their own regarding priests and pedophelia. These are the people telling Americans what is moral and right; these are groups who have been tied to funding all of the above initiatives, and will likely fund more in the future.

What is moral and right is ALL Americans having the same access to the Constitution of the United States of America, regardless of sexual orientation, skin color or gender.

This is not just about Prop 8. Prop 8 has become the symbol of what must be done and all that still must be undone. This is about the fabric of our nation and what we are going to do to make it a more perfect union. I don't want to live in a nation where I have more rights legally than my brothers and sisters. I will fight for the rights of all. Ignorance, bigotry, racism and mysogyny need not apply. Those are the tools of the people who would keep the United States of America divided.

:peace: and :heart:
Raine


 

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Comment by TriSec on 11/17/2008 13:54:29
Morning, comrades!



Perhaps the good gay folk in Georgia, California, Florida, etc. should get together and gather signatures for a ballot initiative stripping the rights of heteros to marry.



Maybe then people would understand what's at stake and how easy it is for mob rule to identify a scapegoat and persecute them.





Comment by Raine on 11/17/2008 14:00:42
Tri, it's looking like the Good bigots of Georgia may be working taking away even more rights from Gays. They were forwaring of a new proposition that may take the children away from Gay couples. I am trying to gather more information about that.







Comment by wickedpam on 11/17/2008 14:07:01
Morning :hug:

Comment by Mondobubba on 11/17/2008 14:08:42
FuckinARIGHT, Raine.

Comment by Raine on 11/17/2008 14:08:52
Great... another fire warning for the SMS show. Oh guys! please stay safe!

Comment by Mondobubba on 11/17/2008 14:09:55
Raine, when you get a chance, since the comcast mail client blows goats for a nickel and gives change, would you mind posting the quote I sent you on Fridee?

Comment by TriSec on 11/17/2008 14:11:47
Quote by Raine:

Tri, it's looking like the Good bigots of Georgia may be working taking away even more rights from Gays. They were forwaring of a new proposition that may take the children away from Gay couples. I am trying to gather more information about that.









Great. Well, I guess you can't care for children once they're outside the womb.



Remember that Catholic Charities in Massachusetts got out of the adoption business entirely, rather than comply with state law.



Good Riddance, I say.





Comment by Scoopster on 11/17/2008 14:11:49
Morning guys.. ugh I'm just not ready for another Monday.

Comment by Raine on 11/17/2008 14:12:10
Sure, Mondo-- The whole quote?

Comment by Mondobubba on 11/17/2008 14:12:22
Well done Shane-o!

Comment by Mondobubba on 11/17/2008 14:13:04
Quote by Raine:

Sure, Mondo-- The whole quote?




Yes please, it is long but it is well worth reading.

Comment by Mondobubba on 11/17/2008 14:14:46
The roaming gangs of gays attacking Mormon women would only be savagly mocking the fashion sense of said women.

Comment by wickedpam on 11/17/2008 14:16:22
Quote by Mondobubba:

The roaming gangs of gays attacking Mormon women would only be savagly mocking the fashion sense of said women.




drive by makeovers?



Comment by Raine on 11/17/2008 14:16:58
Chris Hedges' book American Fascists:



I do not deny the right of Christian radicals to be, to believe and worship as they choose. But I will engage in a dialogue with those who deny my right to be, who delegitimize my faith and denounce my struggle before God as worthless. All dialogue must include respect and tolerance the beliefs, worth and dignity of others, including those outside the nation and faith. When this respect is denied, this clash ideologies to be merely a difference of opinion and becomes a fight for survival. This movement seeks, in the name of Christianity and American democracy, to destroy what it claims to defend. I do not believe that America with inevitably become a fascist state or that the Christian Right is the Nazi Party. But I do believe that the radical Christian Right is a sworn and potent enemy of the open society. Its ideology bears within it the tenents of a Christian fascism...the movement stands poised to manipulate fear and chaos ruthlessly and reshape America in ways that have not been seen since the nation's founding. All Americans-not only those of faith-who care about our open society must learn to speak about this movement with a new vocabulary, to give up passivity, to challenge this movement's deluded appropriation of Christianity and do everything possible to defend tolerance (Emphasis added). The attacks by this movement on the right and beliefs of Muslims, Jews, immigrants, gays, lesbians, women, scholars, scientists, those they dismiss as "nominal Christians," and those they brand with the curse of "secular humanism" are an attack on all of us, on our values, our freedoms, and ultimately our democracy. Tolerance is a virtue, but tolerance coupled with passivity is a vice (emphasis added).





Comment by Mondobubba on 11/17/2008 14:23:42
Quote by Raine:

Chris Hedges' book American Fascists:



I do not deny the right of Christian radicals to be, to believe and worship as they choose. But I will engage in a dialogue with those who deny my right to be, who delegitimize my faith and denounce my struggle before God as worthless. All dialogue must include respect and tolerance the beliefs, worth and dignity of others, including those outside the nation and faith. When this respect is denied, this clash ideologies to be merely a difference of opinion and becomes a fight for survival. This movement seeks, in the name of Christianity and American democracy, to destroy what it claims to defend. I do not believe that America with inevitably become a fascist state or that the Christian Right is the Nazi Party. But I do believe that the radical Christian Right is a sworn and potent enemy of the open society. Its ideology bears within it the tenents of a Christian fascism...the movement stands poised to manipulate fear and chaos ruthlessly and reshape America in ways that have not been seen since the nation's founding. All Americans-not only those of faith-who care about our open society must learn to speak about this movement with a new vocabulary, to give up passivity, to challenge this movement's deluded appropriation of Christianity and do everything possible to defend tolerance (Emphasis added). The attacks by this movement on the right and beliefs of Muslims, Jews, immigrants, gays, lesbians, women, scholars, scientists, those they dismiss as "nominal Christians," and those they brand with the curse of "secular humanism" are an attack on all of us, on our values, our freedoms, and ultimately our democracy. Tolerance is a virtue, but tolerance coupled with passivity is a vice (emphasis added).









Back story. I was reading this book last week. I emailed this quote to Raine early Fridee morning. I think in these troubled times it is especially tenchent.

Comment by Mondobubba on 11/17/2008 14:24:15
Quote by wickedpam:

Quote by Mondobubba:

The roaming gangs of gays attacking Mormon women would only be savagly mocking the fashion sense of said women.




drive by makeovers?





Yeah something like that!

Comment by Mondobubba on 11/17/2008 14:27:23
Jesus Newt, project much?

Comment by Raine on 11/17/2008 14:27:53
Quote by wickedpam:

Quote by Mondobubba:

The roaming gangs of gays attacking Mormon women would only be savagly mocking the fashion sense of said women.




drive by makeovers?

Oh that would be fabulous!



Comment by Scoopster on 11/17/2008 14:32:33
Oh yah.. Happy 60th Birthday to Howard Dean!

Comment by Raine on 11/17/2008 14:35:38
Comment by wickedpam on 11/17/2008 14:37:30
Are they like the good Germans?

Comment by Raine on 11/17/2008 14:42:40
:waiting: Hmm... I hope that Momma is not tempering her critique of the Auto industry due to her sponsorship.







Comment by wickedpam on 11/17/2008 14:44:55
I don't think she is - I don't think anyone want's the big 3 to fail. it really is an industry we have to fight for I think but i have to wonder if years ago cafe standards were raised and the auto companies and oil company and all didn't fight them, would we be in this situation?

Comment by Raine on 11/17/2008 14:50:16
Quote by wickedpam:

I don't think she is - I don't think anyone want's the big 3 to fail. it really is an industry we have to fight for I think but i have to wonder if years ago cafe standards were raised and the auto companies and oil company and all didn't fight them, would we be in this situation?
I don't want them to fail either...



I do feel however this industry needs -- to get moving.



It's not just the cafe standards, it is a whole slew of things...



I am still pissed about the Electric Car. I am pissed that people have been screaming for YEARS for more efficient milage... cars that do not fall apart...



They need to stop the monopolisitic ideaology that forces people to HAVE to buy these cars.

Comment by TriSec on 11/17/2008 15:00:22
Cars....



2003 (Before the Dark Times, before the layoffs), and my old Chrysler was showing it's age. ('97 Dodge Stratus....great car, but hitting the nickel & dime phase.)



Anyway, I thought it was too small with a young child, so I was looking for a wagon.



ONLY Ford built one at the time; the Focus wagon. I didn't even look at that one...the options and accessories were junk, and at the time the Focus was having electrical problems and a few of them burst into flames.



The only other American option was an SUV or a Minivan, and I knew I didn't want (or need) either one of those.



So, it was on to Europe. I had my heart set on a VW Jetta Wagon...until on a whim I test-drove the Subaru.



All Wheel Drive, all the bells and whistles I wanted, and it was $2,000 less than the VW. Bought it that afternoon. (Of course, I was laid off a month later, but that's another story.)



So here I am 5 years later. I just replaced the battery...had to do two tires last year, and I'm in need of a new radio. (CD jammed in it.) But that's it. I go out, put the key in it, and it starts every time without a fuss.



So....



1. Everything I wanted and/or needed in it, no weird option packages or "surprise" costs



2. All-wheel drive, practically a necessity for New England.



3. Cost less than anything else comparable.



4. Not an SUV; I usually average between 25-30 mpg under most conditions.



5. Five years old and still in good shape...still starts every morning, even in the dead of winter.







So Ford, Chevy, and GM.....match that and we'll talk.

Comment by TriSec on 11/17/2008 15:01:55
Oh, and the electric car thingy?



I'd buy one. My entire Family lives within 20 miles of me in Waltham, and I drive 4 miles to work.



Last week, I drove less than 100 miles in seven days.







Hello, is anyone in the market research department listening?

Comment by Random on 11/17/2008 15:03:55
Yay, finally talking about something besides Prop 8.

Comment by Random on 11/17/2008 15:06:35
Quote by TriSec:

Cars....



2003 (Before the Dark Times, before the layoffs), and my old Chrysler was showing it's age. ('97 Dodge Stratus....great car, but hitting the nickel & dime phase.)



Anyway, I thought it was too small with a young child, so I was looking for a wagon.



ONLY Ford built one at the time; the Focus wagon. I didn't even look at that one...the options and accessories were junk, and at the time the Focus was having electrical problems and a few of them burst into flames.



The only other American option was an SUV or a Minivan, and I knew I didn't want (or need) either one of those.



So, it was on to Europe. I had my heart set on a VW Jetta Wagon...until on a whim I test-drove the Subaru.



All Wheel Drive, all the bells and whistles I wanted, and it was $2,000 less than the VW. Bought it that afternoon. (Of course, I was laid off a month later, but that's another story.)



So here I am 5 years later. I just replaced the battery...had to do two tires last year, and I'm in need of a new radio. (CD jammed in it.) But that's it. I go out, put the key in it, and it starts every time without a fuss.



So....



1. Everything I wanted and/or needed in it, no weird option packages or "surprise" costs



2. All-wheel drive, practically a necessity for New England.



3. Cost less than anything else comparable.



4. Not an SUV; I usually average between 25-30 mpg under most conditions.



5. Five years old and still in good shape...still starts every morning, even in the dead of winter.







So Ford, Chevy, and GM.....match that and we'll talk.




Random drives his mom's old Honda, that things ten years old and still runs.



Comment by Random on 11/17/2008 15:08:16
Random will go against the grain. Sarah Palin, please run in 2012, we need an easy win/landslide.

Comment by Raine on 11/17/2008 15:11:10
Quote by Random:

Yay, finally talking about something besides Prop 8.


:hug:

Comment by Raine on 11/17/2008 15:12:14
John Denver Forever!!! :usa:

Comment by wickedpam on 11/17/2008 15:12:28
Raine - I agree they needed to move long ago, but you know how people have a hard time changing they wait until the absolute last minute to do so. I mean look at where we had to go as a country to get people to take a chance on change.



I'm mad about that electric car too - don't think I would have been had I not seem the movie. They shoot themselves in the foot and there would have been new jobs in new industries. It was shameful what they did.





Tri - my first car was Dodge 500, bought used, it was fairly good car but needed lots of work to maintain it by the time I got it. Second car Dodge Neon. I had a love/hate relationship with that car. It loved to spend my money and I hated being broken down on the side of the road.



My most reacent car - Hyndai - loved it. I've driven it over 100k miles and outside of burning through a lot of lights the car if really good on gas and pretty easy to maintain.



I would have prefered to buy from an American company but nothing they were producing met my needs and cost way too much for me to handle.

Comment by m-hadley on 11/17/2008 15:14:15
Mornin' Everbodee :coffee:

Hope y'all had a great weekend. Here in Tulsa, OK, we had between 300 - 350 people turn out to march against H8 and Prop 8 and in favor of equality for all citizens (sorry Random - it is THE story of the moment :P). Thanks to Raine and BobR for supporting equal rights for all Americans - you guys rock :airhump:

Cheers,

mfaye & :dance:

ps - Did you all see the very articulate, pragmatic, intelligent and charming interview with our president-elect last night on 60 Minutes? He is so impressive, yes?

:gobama:

Comment by BobR on 11/17/2008 15:18:22
Ok everyone, it's that time of year again. The bill has come due to keep the lights on, and since we really don't have advertising, that comes out of my pocket. If you can afford it, there's a link up there at the top labeled "Donate". I'd appreciate it if you could toss some change in my tip jar.



Considering the economy, I know money's tight. No pressure, but any help is appreciated... :peace:

Comment by Random on 11/17/2008 15:19:52
Quote by m-hadley:

Mornin' Everbodee :coffee:

Hope y'all had a great weekend. Here in Tulsa, OK, we had between 300 - 350 people turn out to march against H8 and Prop 8 and in favor of equality for all citizens (sorry Random - it is THE story of the moment :P). Thanks to Raine and BobR for supporting equal rights for all Americans - you guys rock :airhump:

Cheers,

mfaye & :dance:

ps - Did you all see the very articulate, pragmatic, intelligent and charming interview with our president-elect last night on 60 Minutes? He is so impressive, yes?

:gobama:


Know what the story will be when 8 gets overturned? Britteny Spears, or whatever teen slut has taken her place.



Comment by BobR on 11/17/2008 15:23:18
Quote by wickedpam:

Raine - I agree they needed to move long ago, but you know how people have a hard time changing they wait until the absolute last minute to do so. I mean look at where we had to go as a country to get people to take a chance on change.



I'm mad about that electric car too - don't think I would have been had I not seem the movie. They shoot themselves in the foot and there would have been new jobs in new industries. It was shameful what they did.





Tri - my first car was Dodge 500, bought used, it was fairly good car but needed lots of work to maintain it by the time I got it. Second car Dodge Neon. I had a love/hate relationship with that car. It loved to spend my money and I hated being broken down on the side of the road.



My most reacent car - Hyndai - loved it. I've driven it over 100k miles and outside of burning through a lot of lights the car if really good on gas and pretty easy to maintain.



I would have prefered to buy from an American company but nothing they were producing met my needs and cost way too much for me to handle.


My considerations when buying my last vehicle were (in order):

1) Reliability

2) Gas mileage

3) Functionality

4) Affordability

5) Features

6) Appearance



I ended up buying a Toyota Tacoma because it was the best match (esp. #1). I almost bought a Prius, but I needed a truck at the time. It's almost 6 years old, at 80K miles, and all I've done is oil changes and new tires.



Comment by BobR on 11/17/2008 15:24:55
Quote by Random:



Know what the story will be when 8 gets overturned? Britteny Spears, or whatever teen slut has taken her place.



I look forward to the day when the country is in such good shape (economically, spiritually, and civically) that they have to run teen slut news stories...

Comment by Raine on 11/17/2008 15:25:20
Personally, I think Prop 8 may find it's way to the Supreme Court... And like Loving V Virginia... we will finally have marriage for all.



It's hard to believe that just 41 years ago, when I was born, 16 states made it illegal for Blacks and Whites to marry.

Comment by Raine on 11/17/2008 15:27:03
:yadda: Oh Jerry, here we go...





STFU! There was a LOT more in that interview. Jerry is an idiot.

Comment by Raine on 11/17/2008 15:27:54
OK, Jerry... show PROOF that Dems have stolen any election... ANY. I dare you...

Comment by Raine on 11/17/2008 15:28:56
stuttering jerry in Chicago is a total idiot.







Comment by TriSec on 11/17/2008 15:29:05
Reliability is the big thing.



I've had some cars that I literally had to put money into every month. (coughFORDcough). I've also driven two Chryslers, and those were pretty reliable.



But Subaru has that iron-clad reputation in these parts. And they don't rust, either...which was a constant problem I had with elder American cars.





Comment by Random on 11/17/2008 15:34:16
Quote by BobR:

Quote by Random:



Know what the story will be when 8 gets overturned? Britteny Spears, or whatever teen slut has taken her place.



I look forward to the day when the country is in such good shape (economically, spiritually, and civically) that they have to run teen slut news stories...


I meant that in a generality, saying we won't talk about gay marraige.

Comment by m-hadley on 11/17/2008 15:37:20
Random,

Cars, shmars, Gays, shmays - whatever is your point? Just wondering...

Cheers,

mfaye

:hug: & :dance:

Comment by Random on 11/17/2008 15:40:50
Quote by m-hadley:

Random,

Cars, shmars, Gays, shmays - whatever is your point? Just wondering...

Cheers,

mfaye

:hug: & :dance:


Wait...what?

Comment by wickedpam on 11/17/2008 15:41:45
Emoticon Party



:lol:

Comment by TriSec on 11/17/2008 15:47:01
Good point...we *had* an electric car before. Why not just dust it off as a stop-gap measure?



But I suppose GM destroyed the toolings and wiped out whatever remnant of the production line may have existed.





Comment by wickedpam on 11/17/2008 15:55:25
It might come down really knowing who in a family you can talk politics with without it spiraling out of the control

Comment by BobR on 11/17/2008 16:10:58
Happy pants!