“Service members enlist. Their families are drafted.”
That familiar refrain has been uttered time and time again on American military bases across the globe during these wars in Iraq and Afghanistan. There’s a lot of truth found in it, and such a reality rarely ends when a service member returns home.
Take Marine Sergeant Stephen Inman and his wife Bethany, for example. They’ve both sacrificed proudly for our country through Stephen’s three deployments – two tours in Iraq and his most recent tour to Afghanistan. A month before Stephen left for his last deployment, the Inmans found out they were expecting their first baby. The couple thought Stephen might be able to return early to witness the birth, but deployment needs dictated otherwise. As a result, Bethany gave birth to their daughter, Khloe Rae, without Stephen at her side. Though it had been the circumstances of the situation, not a personal choice, Stephen blamed himself for being away at war when Khloe was born. Meanwhile, back home Bethany dealt with all the labors of new parenthood alone, juggling the mortgage, the car payments and bouts of anxiety and depression.
The Inmans’ are just one couple of millions who have faced the challenges of service. Since 9/11, over 3 million Americans have had a spouse or parent deploy in these wars. As the Iraq war ends, this small minority is exactly why IAVA is launching a new program for military families inspired by the findings in our latest issue report Unsung Heroes: Military Families After Ten Years of War. Be the first to read it online and share it with your own friends and family.
The report findings should be a gut-check for every American heading home to their own families this holiday season. For ten years, through two of the longest wars in American history, military families have braved unique challenges with the same strength and resilience as their loved ones fighting overseas. But the strain of multiple deployments and the economic crisis are taking a heavy toll.
Unlike the World War II generation that rallied around those on the home front, American society nowadays is generally clueless about the sacrifices these families face. Service members of this generation are deploying two, three, even four times, and the abnormal has become normal for their families. As a result, a third of military spouses whose partners deployed were diagnosed with anxiety, depression, sleeping problems and other mental disorders according to a recent study. Meanwhile, their kids are also feeling the pressure of frequent moves and households managed by single parents. A 2009 study found that one-third of children between ages five and twelve who experienced parental deployment had a high likelihood of developing social and psychological problems.
If the emotional toll of war and separation isn’t enough on a family, the economic crisis at home is causing more stress. As the U.S. military surged in Iraq, foreclosures in military communities back home spiked by 32 percent between 2008 and 2010. Over 20,000 service members lost their homes to foreclosure last year alone. And, according to the latest figures, over 26 percent of military spouses were unemployed in June – the national average was 9.2 percent.
WASHINGTON -- Eager to put the long and divisive Iraq war to rest, President Barack Obama declared Monday "those days are over" with the last American troops heading home, but he pledged the U.S. would remain committed to the fledgling government they leave behind. He and Iraq's leader somberly saluted America's war dead at Arlington National Cemetery.
"A war is ending," the president said, standing with Iraqi Prime Minister Nouri al-Maliki at the White House. U.S. troops are leaving "with honor and with their heads held high," said Obama, who strongly opposed the war as a candidate for the White House.
The last American troops are to be out of Iraq by Dec. 31. Thousands of others are still in Afghanistan.
Just 6,000 remain in Iraq, down from 170,000 at the war's peak in 2007.
The withdrawal will cap a war in which nearly 4,500 Americans were killed, about 32,000 were wounded, hundreds of billions of dollars were spent and the American political debate was consumed until economic woes brought attention back home.
Obama had said weeks ago that he was pulling all troops by year's end, leaving his appearance with al-Maliki to focus instead on what's next -- a relationship both leaders described as rich in shared interests, from education to oil, politics to security.
To the Iraqi people, who still face massive challenges in rebuilding a society ripped apart by nearly nine years of war, Obama said: "You will not stand alone."
The U.S., in fact, needs the help of Iraq in dealing with the volatile Middle East and two of neighbors in particular, Iran and Syria. In getting out of Iraq, Obama emphasized that "our strong presence in the Middle East endures" and the U.S. won't soften in its defense of its interests.
In the midst of a re-election run, Obama is using the war's end to both honor the military's sacrifice and to remind the nation the unpopular war is ending on his watch. He is to deliver his war-is-over message in TV interviews today and then again on Wednesday in remarks to troops at Ft. Bragg, N.C.
Obama opposed the war from the start and eventually rode that stand to the White House.
On Monday, speaking as a commander in chief, Obama put the focus on Iraq's future.
"I think history will judge the original decision to go into Iraq," Obama said. What's clear, he added, is that because of the huge sacrifices by American soldiers and civilians and the courage of the Iraqi people, "we have now achieved an Iraq that is self-governing, that is inclusive and that has enormous potential."
Said al-Maliki: "Anyone who observes the nature of the relationship between the two countries will say that the relationship will not end with the departure of the last American soldier."
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Morning, comrades.
Say Mondo.....looky what's breaking news on the BBC today.
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Morning, comrades.
Say Mondo.....looky what's breaking news on the BBC today.
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Hunting for the Higgs
Colliders fire particles
Einstein watches too.
See? Anything, I tell you!
<< I am the Haiku Bosun >>
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Yes, but you have trashed the experiment, quantum physics-wise. Hiesenberg is very upset with you. Not to mention Schroedinger and his cat!
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Oooh.. Democratic Underground redesigned their homepage
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Ah, I've had similar experience with Sikhs. There was a guy on the IT staff...turban, beard and all. You would never find a kinder gentleman anywhere.
But because they wear a turban, they all get lumped together and stereotyped.
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Yes, but you have trashed the experiment, quantum physics-wise. Hiesenberg is very upset with you. Not to mention Schroedinger and his cat!
Listen, I can't wait for them to figure out the Heisenberg Uncertainty Principle so that transporters can be invented. I am so personally coming to Jacksonville with a brick.
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Really Jim? you too?
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Oooh.. Democratic Underground redesigned their homepage
wow - welcome to the 21st century...
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Really Jim? you too?
(I was busy doing my Rick Perry imitation... )
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Really Jim? you too?
(I was busy doing my Rick Perry imitation... )
oh it was just the implication of Newt would be boyant cause he's fat
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So, thanks to the right-wing blovating fear and hatred, apparently the Muslim reality show on TLC has been canned. At least they still don't want Sarah Palin back.
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Really Jim? you too?
(I was busy doing my Rick Perry imitation... )
oh it was just the implication of Newt would be boyant cause he's fat
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According to an exhaustive, 20 second google search, the show's not cancelled.
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According to an exhaustive, 20 second google search, the show's not cancelled.
oooh.
Liv, did you get that from Thom??
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According to an exhaustive, 20 second google search, the show's not cancelled.
oooh.
Liv, did you get that from Thom??
I heard it on Thom when he was discussing the boycott. It's amazing how sloppy he can be with research sometimes.
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Oh my.. My boss just walked in with a brand new heavy duty stand mixer and said "MERRY CHRISTMAS - NOW MAKE ME MORE COOKIES!"![]()
I have no idea how I'm gonna get this thing home.. it weighs a TON!![]()
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Oh my.. My boss just walked in with a brand new heavy duty stand mixer and said "MERRY CHRISTMAS - NOW MAKE ME MORE COOKIES!"![]()
I have no idea how I'm gonna get this thing home.. it weighs a TON!![]()
if its Kitchen Aid I'm jealous![]()
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Oh my.. My boss just walked in with a brand new heavy duty stand mixer and said "MERRY CHRISTMAS - NOW MAKE ME MORE COOKIES!"![]()
I have no idea how I'm gonna get this thing home.. it weighs a TON!![]()
if its Kitchen Aid I'm jealous![]()
me too! WOW!
3M (Command, Scotchbrand tape)
Airborne Vitamin
Amway
Anheuser Busch Inbev (Select55)
Art Instruction Schools
Bamboozles
Bank of America (Cash Rewards)
Bare Escentuals
Brother International (Ptouch)
Campbell’s Soup
Capital One
Church & Dwight (Oxi Clean, Arm & Hammer)
City Furniture
Conagra (Hunt’s Diced Tomatoes)
Corinthian Colleges (Everest411)
Cotton, Inc.
Cumberland Packing (Sweet’N Low)
Dell Computers
Diamond Foods (Kettlebrand Chips)
Estee Lauder (Clinique)
ET Browe (Palmer’s Cocoa butter)
Gap
General Motors (Chevy Runs Deep)
Good Year
Green Mountain Coffee
Guthy Renker (Proactiv)
Hershey Kisses
Home Depot
Honda North America
HTC Phones
Ikea
JC Penney
JP Morgan Chase (Chase Sapphire)
Kayak.com, Kellogg (Special K)
Koa Brands (John Frieda)
Leapfrog Enterprise (Leapster Explorer)
Lowe’s
Mars (Dove Chocolate)
McDonald’s
Nationwide Insurance
News Corp
Nintendo
Novartis
Old Navy
Pernod Ricard
Petsmart
Pier One
Pfizer
Procter & Gamble
Progressive Insurance
Prudential Financial
Radio Shack
Ruth’s Chris Steakhouse
SC Johnson
Sears
Signet (Kay Jewelers)
Sonic Drive-ins
Subaru
HQ (uDraw)
T-Mobil
Toyota
Volkswagen
Vtech
Wal-Mart
Whirlpool
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Yeah it is.. I was literally knocked over surprised when they came in with it. I've been trying to buy a used one off CL for weeks without anyone responding to emails, gave up waiting & started making dough by hand like I did last year!
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Yeah it is.. I was literally knocked over surprised when they came in with it. I've been trying to buy a used one off CL for weeks without anyone responding to emails, gave up waiting & started making dough by hand like I did last year!
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BTW, it appears Loews isn't the only group to pull advertisment. I am highly disappointed.et tu subaru?3M (Command, Scotchbrand tape)
Airborne Vitamin
Amway
Anheuser Busch Inbev (Select55)
Art Instruction Schools
Bamboozles
Bank of America (Cash Rewards)
Bare Escentuals
Brother International (Ptouch)
Campbell’s Soup
Capital One
Church & Dwight (Oxi Clean, Arm & Hammer)
City Furniture
Conagra (Hunt’s Diced Tomatoes)
Corinthian Colleges (Everest411)
Cotton, Inc.
Cumberland Packing (Sweet’N Low)
Dell Computers
Diamond Foods (Kettlebrand Chips)
Estee Lauder (Clinique)
ET Browe (Palmer’s Cocoa butter)
Gap
General Motors (Chevy Runs Deep)
Good Year
Green Mountain Coffee
Guthy Renker (Proactiv)
Hershey Kisses
Home Depot
Honda North America
HTC Phones
Ikea
JC Penney
JP Morgan Chase (Chase Sapphire)
Kayak.com, Kellogg (Special K)
Koa Brands (John Frieda)
Leapfrog Enterprise (Leapster Explorer)
Lowe’s
Mars (Dove Chocolate)
McDonald’s
Nationwide Insurance
News Corp
Nintendo
Novartis
Old Navy
Pernod Ricard
Petsmart
Pier One
Pfizer
Procter & Gamble
Progressive Insurance
Prudential Financial
Radio Shack
Ruth’s Chris Steakhouse
SC Johnson
Sears
Signet (Kay Jewelers)
Sonic Drive-ins
Subaru
HQ (uDraw)
T-Mobil
Toyota
Volkswagen
Vtech
Wal-Mart
Whirlpool
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here is a list of current shows on TLC
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BTW, it appears Loews isn't the only group to pull advertisment. I am highly disappointed.et tu subaru?3M (Command, Scotchbrand tape)
Airborne Vitamin
Amway
Anheuser Busch Inbev (Select55)
Art Instruction Schools
Bamboozles
Bank of America (Cash Rewards)
Bare Escentuals
Brother International (Ptouch)
Campbell’s Soup
Capital One
Church & Dwight (Oxi Clean, Arm & Hammer)
City Furniture
Conagra (Hunt’s Diced Tomatoes)
Corinthian Colleges (Everest411)
Cotton, Inc.
Cumberland Packing (Sweet’N Low)
Dell Computers
Diamond Foods (Kettlebrand Chips)
Estee Lauder (Clinique)
ET Browe (Palmer’s Cocoa butter)
Gap
General Motors (Chevy Runs Deep)
Good Year
Green Mountain Coffee
Guthy Renker (Proactiv)
Hershey Kisses
Home Depot
Honda North America
HTC Phones
Ikea
JC Penney
JP Morgan Chase (Chase Sapphire)
Kayak.com, Kellogg (Special K)
Koa Brands (John Frieda)
Leapfrog Enterprise (Leapster Explorer)
Lowe’s
Mars (Dove Chocolate)
McDonald’s
Nationwide Insurance
News Corp
Nintendo
Novartis
Old Navy
Pernod Ricard
Petsmart
Pier One
Pfizer
Procter & Gamble
Progressive Insurance
Prudential Financial
Radio Shack
Ruth’s Chris Steakhouse
SC Johnson
Sears
Signet (Kay Jewelers)
Sonic Drive-ins
Subaru
HQ (uDraw)
T-Mobil
Toyota
Volkswagen
Vtech
Wal-Mart
Whirlpool
Pussies!
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Oh my.. My boss just walked in with a brand new heavy duty stand mixer and said "MERRY CHRISTMAS - NOW MAKE ME MORE COOKIES!"![]()
I have no idea how I'm gonna get this thing home.. it weighs a TON!![]()
if its Kitchen Aid I'm jealous![]()
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here is a list of current shows on TLC
LA Ink was cancelled. I can't say that I've watched this channel in a long while - heck I was an avid viewer of Trading Spaces back when they would show you how to do home projects on the cheap and fast
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Oh my.. My boss just walked in with a brand new heavy duty stand mixer and said "MERRY CHRISTMAS - NOW MAKE ME MORE COOKIES!"![]()
I have no idea how I'm gonna get this thing home.. it weighs a TON!![]()
if its Kitchen Aid I'm jealous![]()
Me three. One of those has been on my short list for a long time. They're so freakin' expensive.
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here is a list of current shows on TLC
LA Ink was cancelled. I can't say that I've watched this channel in a long while - heck I was an avid viewer of Trading Spaces back when they would show you how to do home projects on the cheap and fast
And to be honest, this show causing all the grief for Loews (or vice verse) actually looked like a good opportunity for some 'low information' Americans to understand that not all muslims are jihaddy terrists.
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Oh my.. My boss just walked in with a brand new heavy duty stand mixer and said "MERRY CHRISTMAS - NOW MAKE ME MORE COOKIES!"![]()
I have no idea how I'm gonna get this thing home.. it weighs a TON!![]()
if its Kitchen Aid I'm jealous![]()
Me three. One of those has been on my short list for a long time. They're so freakin' expensive.
cheapest I've seen one is 199 and that's just the mixer itself
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here is a list of current shows on TLC
LA Ink was cancelled. I can't say that I've watched this channel in a long while - heck I was an avid viewer of Trading Spaces back when they would show you how to do home projects on the cheap and fast
And to be honest, this show causing all the grief for Loews (or vice verse) actually looked like a good opportunity for some 'low information' Americans to understand that not all muslims are jihaddy terrists.
Oh those are the folks who were email bombing TLC and Lowe's.
Member my comments about switching commie ./ rooshen for islam / mooslum? Here is a handy dandy press release:
“The Learning Channel’s new show ‘All-American Muslim’ is propaganda clearly designed to counter legitimate and present-day concerns about many Muslims who are advancing Islamic fundamentalism and Sharia law,†stated an article that ran on the group’s web site in advance of the series’ November premiere. “The show profiles only Muslims that appear to be ordinary folks while excluding many Islamic believers whose agenda poses a clear and present danger to liberties and traditional values that the majority of Americans cherish. One of the most troubling scenes occurred at the introduction of the program when a Muslim police officer stated ‘I really am American. No ifs and or buts about it.’ … The show portrayed a Roman Catholic who converted to Muslim to marry. However, there was no mention of a Muslim who attempted to convert to Christianity which has resulted in a multitude of conflicts in America and abroad. Many woman were shown wearing hijabs and many who were not, but the program did not show what happens if one of the hijab-wearing women decides to take it off. Such conflicts would conflict with The Learning Channel’s agenda to inaccurately portray Muslims in America. There is no mention of the honor killing of Jessica Mokdad who lived not far from where this show was taped in Dearborn. The show fails to mention many Islamic believers’ demeaning treatment of women or great disdain for non-Muslims (infidels).
See what I am talking about?
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This is a really messed up picture.
That is Zuccotti park, lit up for christmas... you see anything peculiar there? (besides it being empty.)