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Thinking Outside the Box
Author: BobR    Date: 12/26/2008 13:25:55

Happy Boxing Day! Today is the day in the UK, Canada, and other former British colonies when people box up the stuff they no longer need and donate it to the poor. No one is clear on where the name came from, but the intent is clear - it's a time of giving back, for showing appreciation for all that you have.

In the United States, of course, the day after Christmas is like Black Friday - another orgy of buying, this time all of the after-Christmas sales. Some retailers are probably hoping to salvage something from this holiday season since - due to the poor economy - retail sales are way down this year.

It's an interesting juxtaposition, the British tradition of giving away and the American tradition of buying more on this day. Americans buy for others before Christmas and for themselves after Christmas. Perhaps it's all those gift cards people now give as gifts...

But Christmas and the buying frenzy are all part of the American Experience, right? We love this time of year, right? We love getting all that stuff right?....

No, we don't:
...But what would make Chistmas merry, and New Year’s happy?

Good question. Two-thirds of Americans apparently dread the holiday season, because it will simply add more stuff to their lives. Christmas gifts have become the social equivalent of anti-matter. Far from delighting the recipients, Christmas gifts depress them.

I stumbled across this information in Bill McKibben’s provocative book Deep Economy: The Wealth of Communities and the Durable Future. In it, McKibben asks a simple question: "Is more better?" Do objects and possessions really make us happy? If not, then why pursue "economic growth," which really means the creation of still more objects and possessions?
[...]
The proportion of Americans who say they are happy has slipped steadily since about 1950. In all the industrialized countries, increasing prosperity has been accompanied by decreasing happiness. Japan and the U.K. have seen huge increases in per capita incomes, but no increases in happiness.

The New York Times reports that people born in the world’s wealthiest countries after 1955 are "three times as likely as their grandparents to have had a serious bout of depression." Between 1955 and 1988, British national income rose sharply — and so did rates of crime and divorce.

And we have so much junk that a whole new industry has arisen to take care of it. One of the fastest-growing businesses in North America is self-storage.

I was one of those people. I used to have a self-storage unit that I rented and kept stuff that wouldn't fit in the house. I ended up emptying it when I bought a bigger house. I remember thinking "why do I need all this stuff?" when I was sweating gallons in the July heat (in GA) as we moved it into the spacious new house. A year later, there were still boxes of crap unpacked.

My parents grew up in the Depression, so reusing and getting the most use out of everything, and not wasting anything was instilled in them at a young age. I can understand their aversion to getting rid of something they might need later. That attitude was passed down to all of us children as well, which is why I tend to not get rid of stuff as much as I should. I think I've finally broken this one in myself.

It would seem like the Boxing Day tradition would be a perfect fit for Americans with so much stuff they need to rent a locker. In this economic downturn, there are more people needing help than ever before, and donations are down. Perhaps that junk in the attic or the storage facility or the basement or the back of the closet could help someone who doesn't even have a house anymore.

Perhaps it's time for Americans to think outside the box, and trade those Big Box stores and their post-Christmas sales for a box of stuff donated to their local Goodwill or Salvation Army. We could all end up a little happier.

Happy Boxing Day.

 

44 comments (Latest Comment: 12/27/2008 03:55:47 by livingonli)
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Comment by trojanrabbit on 12/26/2008 13:39:43
And you better spend those gift cards now before the store you bought them from goes bankrupt.



Hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas and can use today to just take everything in.

Comment by wickedpam on 12/26/2008 14:05:03
Morning :hug:



Hope everyone had a nice holiday!

Comment by wickedpam on 12/26/2008 15:22:21
hmmm -everyone must be sleeping in this morning - lucky stiffs

Comment by BobR on 12/26/2008 15:27:24
Comment by Raine on 12/26/2008 15:37:29
Heya Mala and Rabbit!



So how was the day?

Comment by wickedpam on 12/26/2008 15:50:18
Mine was very nice how was ya'lls :)

Comment by TriSec on 12/26/2008 15:57:50
Hey folks.



Low-key day....we're home playing with Legos, figuring out the new electronics, and I'm mulling over some French Cooking...



Not working the day job today, and because Friday is reserved for Scouts, I'm not at the store tonight, either.



Sun is shining, snow is melting....simply a delightful day after Christmas in these parts.





Comment by Raine on 12/26/2008 15:59:40
Quote by wickedpam:

Mine was very nice how was ya'lls :)


It was a very good day. Low key, no drama...



I made a smoked ham last night after we got home, and bob made homeade Boiled custard which we drank with some Jamesons and we had a friend over.



Very nice day indeed.

Comment by wickedpam on 12/26/2008 16:09:02
sounds like everyone had a nice day

Comment by Raine on 12/26/2008 16:19:31
It really IS quiet in here today.



Mala... we could throw a huge kegger and no one would know!

Comment by wickedpam on 12/26/2008 16:29:32
Quote by Raine:

It really IS quiet in here today.



Mala... we could throw a huge kegger and no one would know!




only the blog lurkers and they'll never tell

Comment by livingonli on 12/26/2008 16:44:26
Hey how could I miss a blog kegger?



This is what happens when I don't go bed until 4 AM because I decide to stay up catching up on DVR recordings.



I had to work yesterday so my Christmas could be better and I do need to go shopping because I have to go get a few things today.

Comment by trojanrabbit on 12/26/2008 16:49:38
Quote by Raine:

Heya Mala and Rabbit!



So how was the day?




It was just fine. Stepped out for a while this morning, took advantage of no one being around in the stores to get Guitar Hero, which I think I just got hooked on last night while playing at my sister's.



Will be taking the wife to work around 4, then who knows, just cuddle with the kitties until I have to pick her up at 11.



Sadly, all that's left of our snow are dirty snowbanks. The 40-50 degree weather we had the last two days got rid of almost all of it. Wanted at least something left for our visitors to see.



Comment by Mondobubba on 12/26/2008 16:56:47
Howdy everybody! Mondo saw Frost/Nixon last night. Lil Opey Taylor has finally figured out how to make a visually interesting movie. Frank Langella is amazing as Nixon. All creepy and jowly with at weird Nixonian stiffness.

Comment by Raine on 12/26/2008 17:00:01
I will be baking a Zucchini bread today.



Eventually...

Comment by livingonli on 12/26/2008 17:05:30
I didn't do that much Christmas shopping this year myself. Then again I didn't need to.

Comment by BobR on 12/26/2008 17:07:55
Quote by livingonli:

Hey how could I miss a blog kegger?



This is what happens when I don't go bed until 4 AM because I decide to stay up catching up on DVR recordings.



I had to work yesterday so my Christmas could be better and I do need to go shopping because I have to go get a few things today.


I need to go to the store too. We need kittie litter - badly...





peeyew....





Comment by velveeta jones on 12/26/2008 17:16:28
good morning!



BobR, I had forgotten what Boxing day was! Thanks for the reminder. While I don't need a storage unit - I do have an attic full of stuff I no longer need or use. I'll use Jan. to box it up and donate what I can.

Comment by Mondobubba on 12/26/2008 17:33:33
Quote by BobR:

Quote by livingonli:

Hey how could I miss a blog kegger?



This is what happens when I don't go bed until 4 AM because I decide to stay up catching up on DVR recordings.



I had to work yesterday so my Christmas could be better and I do need to go shopping because I have to go get a few things today.


I need to go to the store too. We need kittie litter - badly...





peeyew....







I feel ya Bobber, I need to go to the pet megastore and get litter in bulk today too. Oh and food as well. Otherwise it would be...bad.

Comment by livingonli on 12/26/2008 18:07:24
Quote by BobR:

Quote by livingonli:

Hey how could I miss a blog kegger?



This is what happens when I don't go bed until 4 AM because I decide to stay up catching up on DVR recordings.



I had to work yesterday so my Christmas could be better and I do need to go shopping because I have to go get a few things today.


I need to go to the store too. We need kittie litter - badly...





peeyew....





I guess you need the extra strong multi-cat version now.

Comment by livingonli on 12/26/2008 18:10:09
Time for me to go head out for a few hours and get stuff done. I will talk to everyone when I get back.

Comment by Will in Chicago on 12/26/2008 18:55:22
Hello, bloggers!!



Good post, BobR!!



I spent most of the day at a friend's house and had dinner - roast beer, baked potatoes, green beans and salad. Quite good.



Today, I am heading to the Hanukkah service at a local temple and a friend visiting from LA may be there. (If not, I will visit her after services. We are scheduled to have a few good dinners together.)

Comment by m-hadley on 12/26/2008 19:00:04
Heya Crew,

I hope everybodee had a very happy, relaxing Christmas - mine was okay ended with the usual family drama... I went to bed. Now I am over at my brother's condo, trying to get his computer up and running. Has anybody out there ever heard of Kaspersky Computer Security (or did the geek at Best Buy just sell me a bill of nada?). I'm just wondering.... I hope that you all had a fabulous day yesterday. The boyz and I are hitting the road back to Tulsa tomorrow (about 630 miles :P). Hope the weather isn't a factor. Take good care everyone, and know that I am sending you good wishes for a mahvelous 2009!!!

Cheers,

mfaye &

Comment by BobR on 12/26/2008 19:05:58
Quote by Will in Phoenix:

Hello, bloggers!!



Good post, BobR!!



I spent most of the day at a friend's house and had dinner - roast beer, baked potatoes, green beans and salad. Quite good.



Today, I am heading to the Hanukkah service at a local temple and a friend visiting from LA may be there. (If not, I will visit her after services. We are scheduled to have a few good dinners together.)


roast beer, huh?.... that sounds... interesting.



Comment by BobR on 12/26/2008 19:06:54
Quote by livingonli:



I guess you need the extra strong multi-cat version now.


I'm thinking a nuclear containment facility would be best...

Comment by BobR on 12/26/2008 19:09:59
Quote by livingonli:

I didn't do that much Christmas shopping this year myself. Then again I didn't need to.


We didn't do much either. Last year, we made most of the gifts; this year, not so much (except for scanning photos and loading up the digitial picture frame we got my mom).



Not sure what to do next year. I kind of like the making of special foodstuffs over buying junk that nobody really needs (see today's blog post )

Comment by Will in Chicago on 12/26/2008 20:51:04
Quote by BobR:

Quote by Will in Phoenix:

Hello, bloggers!!



Good post, BobR!!



I spent most of the day at a friend's house and had dinner - roast beer, baked potatoes, green beans and salad. Quite good.



Today, I am heading to the Hanukkah service at a local temple and a friend visiting from LA may be there. (If not, I will visit her after services. We are scheduled to have a few good dinners together.)


roast beer, huh?.... that sounds... interesting.





Roast beef, although these past eight years are enough to drive most people to drink.



Comment by TriSec on 12/26/2008 21:23:11
Passing Through!





Comment by BobR on 12/26/2008 21:32:36
Quote by Will in Phoenix:





Roast beef, although these past eight years are enough to drive most people to drink.



I was just bustin' yer hump - I knew what you meant. ;)

Comment by BobR on 12/26/2008 22:18:43


Comment by BobR on 12/26/2008 22:24:47
And the sequel...





Comment by BobR on 12/26/2008 22:36:57
Surely, this is a sign of the apocolypse:







I love Metallica, but I love traditional Irish music and this is just....





oy.

Comment by Mondobubba on 12/26/2008 23:41:37
Quote by BobR:

Surely, this is a sign of the apocolypse:







I love Metallica, but I love traditional Irish music and this is just....





oy.




You mean Rock-pocolypse! I digress.



So, what are you feeling on say the Pogues or the Drop Kick Murphys? How about Boiled in Lead?



: mutters something about melody lacking in metal songs and he complains about modern jazz :

Comment by livingonli on 12/27/2008 00:31:15
I'm back. It's a madhouse out there. Too much crap out there. I was going to go out to eat but with the traffic being what it was I decided to just go home.

Comment by TriSec on 12/27/2008 00:35:28
Julia Child is my new master.



pp. 313, Piece de Boeuf a la Cuillere...Minced Braised Beef served in a Beef shell!



:bow:



Speaking of which, any of our Washington contingent interested in a Culinary Hajj?





Comment by trojanrabbit on 12/27/2008 01:25:53
Finally got up the nerve to carry the old radio back up to its rightful place in the computer room. Very happy with how it turned out, much easier to tune it than it was before (no cracks and pops when turning the dial) and there isn't that "really hot" smell coming from it. It really needed a good going over.



So depressing that there's nothing good to listen to. 1950's radios aren't meant for sports talk and RW claptrap (it really isn't meant for progressive stuff either, when it comes right down to it, even when there's fart jokes mixed in) There's a good oldies station in Toronto, but it's just out of my range.

Comment by BobR on 12/27/2008 01:26:33
Quote by Mondobubba:





You mean Rock-pocolypse! I digress.



So, what are you feeling on say the Pogues or the Drop Kick Murphys? How about Boiled in Lead?



: mutters something about melody lacking in metal songs and he complains about modern jazz :


:rolleyes: :yadda:

There's more to melody than just a string of notes...

Comment by BobR on 12/27/2008 01:31:23
Quote by TriSec:

Julia Child is my new master.



pp. 313, Piece de Boeuf a la Cuillere...Minced Braised Beef served in a Beef shell!



:bow:



Speaking of which, any of our Washington contingent interested in a Culinary Hajj?





count me in!



chocolate chip merengues in the oven....



btw - my bouche de noël turned out great. It tastes like Boston Cream Pie...



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Comment by livingonli on 12/27/2008 01:45:13
It looks like a Chocolate Log.

Comment by Mondobubba on 12/27/2008 02:03:16
Quote by TriSec:

Julia Child is my new master.



pp. 313, Piece de Boeuf a la Cuillere...Minced Braised Beef served in a Beef shell!



:bow:



Speaking of which, any of our Washington contingent interested in a Culinary Hajj?







Which book is that in? Beef wrapped in beef. All hail the French!

Comment by Mondobubba on 12/27/2008 02:04:49
Quote by BobR:

Quote by Mondobubba:





You mean Rock-pocolypse! I digress.



So, what are you feeling on say the Pogues or the Drop Kick Murphys? How about Boiled in Lead?



: mutters something about melody lacking in metal songs and he complains about modern jazz :


:rolleyes: :yadda:

There's more to melody than just a string of notes...






Nice way to evade the heart of the matter, Bobber. My question re Pogues, the Murphys and BiL.

Comment by BobR on 12/27/2008 02:36:21
Quote by Mondobubba:



Nice way to evade the heart of the matter, Bobber. My question re Pogues, the Murphys and BiL.


:huh: heart of the matter? What matter?

Comment by Mondobubba on 12/27/2008 02:44:09
Quote by BobR:

Quote by Mondobubba:



Nice way to evade the heart of the matter, Bobber. My question re Pogues, the Murphys and BiL.


:huh: heart of the matter? What matter?






No comments on them. They do the Irish/punk/rock thing. Of the three Boiled in Lead is my hands down favorite.

Comment by livingonli on 12/27/2008 03:55:47
Kansas City has a tornado watch.