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Author: TriSec    Date: 11/08/2011 11:35:31

Good Morning.

Today is our 3,156th day in Iraq, and our 3,684th day in Afghanistan.

We'll start this morning as we always do; with the latest casualty figures from our ongoing wars, courtesy of Antiwar.com:

American Deaths
Since war began (3/19/03): 4481
Since "Mission Accomplished" (5/1/03): 4342
Since Handover (6/29/04): 3622
Since Obama Inauguration (1/20/09): 253
Since Operation New Dawn: 53

Other Coalition Troops - Iraq: 318
US Military Deaths - Afghanistan: 1,831
Other Military Deaths - Afghanistan: 962
Contractor Employee Deaths - Iraq: 1,487
Journalists - Iraq : 348
Academics Killed - Iraq: 448

We find this morning's Cost of War passing through:

$ 1, 274, 870, 400, 000.00



As we head into Veteran's day this week, I have a mountain of stories, so I'm just going to list away. We'll start with an
update from Arlington:


ARLINGTON, Va. — A painstaking review of nearly 260,000 grave markers at Arlington National Cemetery has so far revealed no further evidence of misplaced or misidentified gravesites like the ones that led the Army to oust the cemetery’s top management last year, cemetery officials said in a briefing Friday.

Still, the cemetery has found tens of thousands of lesser discrepancies between the information on headstones and supporting paperwork, requiring review by a team of research analysts and, in some cases, replacement of headstones to fix the error.

The cemetery provided the briefing to Sen. Claire McCaskill, D-Mo., who chairs a subcommittee that has investigated what McCaskill and others have called widespread mismanagement at the cemetery. An Army inspector general’s report last year revealed that more than 200 gravesites were potentially mislabeled or misplaced inside the cemetery. Subsequent investigation determined those were largely paperwork errors as opposed to having actual bodies in the wrong place.

McCaskill said Friday that she is encouraged by the thoroughness of the Army’s fact-checking process, in which members of the Army’s Old Guard — its official ceremonial unit — were sent to the cemetery over the summer to photograph every marker at the cemetery with iPhones, and build an electronic database to replace what had largely been a system of paper records.

“Most important, I know going forward that we’re not going to have this problem again” because of the systems being put in place at the cemetery by its new leadership team, said McCaskill, who had been one of the cemetery’s most outspoken critics.


Perhaps we can finally start to put the scandal behind us and let Arlington go back to being the hallowed ground it was intended to be.

Heading overseas, we'll check in on Iraq and the progress towards coming home. While many of us have fought the political battles to get the troops home, surprisingly enough, families of those that fought the actual battles are far more ambivalent about the troops leaving...especially Gold-Star families.


Almost all American troops are supposed to leave Iraq by the end of December. President Barack Obama said so on Oct. 21.

More than six years before the announcement, Army Pfc. Robert Swaney called his aunt, Angie Denes. He had been living with her in West Jefferson when he enlisted. He was "Robbie" to her.

Swaney was calling from Iraq. He had killed a person for the first time, and that had upset him. He was starting to wonder what he was doing there. He felt "forsaken," Denes remembered, as if he and his fellow soldiers had been put in a terrible position and then forgotten.

"Do you think it's going to make a difference?" he asked his aunt about the war in Iraq in 2005.

Swaney, 21, was killed the week after that phone call, on July 30, 2005, when his vehicle rolled over a bomb in Baghdad.

Even now, Denes doesn't have a clear answer to her nephew's question. She feels lied to about weapons of mass destruction. But she does think that the international democratic uprisings over the past year came, in part, because of the United States' example in Iraq.

All these years later, is leaving Iraq the right thing?

"I don't know," she said last week. But she still cries when she talks about Robbie.
The Democrats and the Republicans, the political scientists and the media commentators have all had their say about the withdrawal. But the families who have made the greatest investments in Iraq -- those families who have lost loved ones -- have their own opinions.


Of course, "coming home" is a relative term. It's starting to look like several thousand troops are only "leaving Iraq" and will not be making the journey back to these shores.


WASHINGTON — Although all but a small number of U.S. troops will be out of Iraq by the end of the year, they won’t all be home for the holidays as President Obama promised last month.

The Pentagon is poised to move at least 4,000 soldiers from Iraq to Kuwait at the end of the year, pending a final decision expected soon by Pentagon and Kuwaiti leaders, U.S. officials said Wednesday.

The move is part of a still-developing Pentagon strategy that ends the Iraq War but positions a strong U.S. force just across the border in Kuwait and across the region to reinforce the U.S.’s commitment to the Middle East and prevent a power vacuum when the tens of thousands of U.S. forces who have served in Iraq are gone.

According to officials, the 1st Brigade, 1st Cavalry Division, which is currently in Iraq, will be shifted to Kuwait, where troops will be close enough to serve as a quick-reaction force if needed in Iraq or any of the nearby countries. The officials spoke on condition of anonymity because the decision has not been finalized by Defense Secretary Leon Panetta.

The plan to beef up U.S. presence in Kuwait also must be approved by the Kuwaiti leaders, although most officials do not believe that will be a problem. The U.S. has had a substantial presence in Kuwait for years, even before the start of the Iraq War.


The last paragraph is key, however. Since I bookmarked the initial story, Kuwait has come out and pretty much said, "not this time"....so maybe all the troops will be coming home after all.

Changing gears to the home front, there's an interesting study out that suggests that military couples tend to stay married, and the divorce rate isn't any different than the civilian rate, despite ten years of ongoing war. But then again, military couples get paid more and get better benefits. Something that hasn't happened on the same-sex front, I might add.


Ten years of war and extreme stress on servicemembers and their families haven't made the military's divorce rate any higher than that of civilians, according to a new report. And the likely reason, the lead researcher says, is the pay and benefits the military offers to married couples.

"Our speculation is that civilians don't get paid extra if they're married, but [servicemembers do]," Benjamin Karney, the study's lead researcher, told Military.com. "The fact that the military pays people to stay married [likely] keeps them married. There's really something going on there, it seems."

The perks of marriage in the military don't stop at the extra pay and housing allowance, Karney noted. Among other benefits, military families also receive subsidized childcare, free counseling and marriage support, free or greatly reduced healthcare, and employment help for spouses.

Karney said the findings could be seen as a lesson for civilian society. If the military can make marriage work over years of war-related stress, he said, the rest of American culture should be able to follow suit.

"We know that the military is under stress and the stress is pretty bad -- but there are other things that matter, too ... which is the support that people have available to them," he said. "The lesson here is that when you help people out and make their lives better, they have better marriages."

The new study, performed by the RAND Corp., is the first of its kind. Unlike previous studies, it compared DoD personnel information from 1998 to 2005 with population data from the Census Bureau. The study broke out and examined divorce rates among male servicemembers and civilians based on race, age and pay to assess how divorce affects different populations within the military.

The results almost universally showed a higher rate of marriage in the military versus civilians, but the same or slightly lower rates of divorce among all military populations.

In 2010, the overall military divorce rate hovered at about 3.6 percent. A comparable civilian rate is not available because of the way that data is tracked year over year.


And finally today....since it is Veteran's Day this Friday, I think we should pause for a minute and honour an actual veteran.


 

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Comment by Mondobubba on 11/08/2011 13:55:56
Morning.

Comment by wickedpam on 11/08/2011 13:56:12
Morning


Well stopped and voted this morning for the only Dem running in my district, he's facing a tough fight for re-election so I'm keeping my fingers

Also did my first write in vote for a firend that doesn't even know I did it. She's a kick butt community organizer who would be awesome in the state senate

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 13:59:36
good morning!

We'll both be voting around lunchtime.

In Herman Cain news, another woman has come forward questioning his behavior.



Comment by Mondobubba on 11/08/2011 14:06:06
Quote by Raine:
good morning!

We'll both be voting around lunchtime.

In Herman Cain news, another woman has come forward questioning his behavior.




This is rather large "bimbo erruption" isn't it? "Bimbo erruption" being a Clinton era term for all the women coming out and saying they had sex with Bubba. I use it with an ironic bent.

On serious note, Cain is a disgusting pig.

Comment by Mondobubba on 11/08/2011 14:07:59
I wish I didn't have a feeling of free floating dread today

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 14:08:38
Quote by Mondobubba:
I wish I didn't have a feeling of free floating dread today

Any reason in particular?

Comment by Mondobubba on 11/08/2011 14:11:03
Quote by Raine:
Quote by Mondobubba:
I wish I didn't have a feeling of free floating dread today

Any reason in particular?



That is why it is free floating. It is part of the whole depression thing. It'll pass soon enough.

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 14:12:26
Quote by Mondobubba:
That is why it is free floating. It is part of the whole depression thing. It'll pass soon enough.



Comment by wickedpam on 11/08/2011 14:12:54
Quote by Mondobubba:
Quote by Raine:
good morning!

We'll both be voting around lunchtime.

In Herman Cain news, another woman has come forward questioning his behavior.




This is rather large "bimbo erruption" isn't it? "Bimbo erruption" being a Clinton era term for all the women coming out and saying they had sex with Bubba. I use it with an ironic bent.

On serious note, Cain is a disgusting pig.



though he did order two $400 bottles of wine and stuck the women with the bill, she said.


a little lashing out I'm guessing

Comment by wickedpam on 11/08/2011 14:14:24
Quote by Raine:
Quote by Mondobubba:
That is why it is free floating. It is part of the whole depression thing. It'll pass soon enough.




http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-5XwGK1EhZr8/TZsEJ-xAZ7I/AAAAAAAAEw8/aA0IFeNmig8/s640/kitten-hug.jpg


Comment by wickedpam on 11/08/2011 14:16:16
you know I'm more inclined to believe the reports of sexual harassment because of where the stories are orginiating - Politico and the Examiner are rather right leaning media

Comment by Mondobubba on 11/08/2011 14:16:23
Quote by wickedpam:
Quote by Raine:
Quote by Mondobubba:
That is why it is free floating. It is part of the whole depression thing. It'll pass soon enough.




http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-5XwGK1EhZr8/TZsEJ-xAZ7I/AAAAAAAAEw8/aA0IFeNmig8/s640/kitten-hug.jpg


Group hugs and kitten hugs. Just what I needed. Thanks! You are da bes' friends.

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 14:19:47
Quote by wickedpam:
you know I'm more inclined to believe the reports of sexual harassment because of where the stories are orginiating - Politico and the Examiner are rather right leaning media



Don't forget this memo from the NRA Now we know what was too hot to be emailed.

Comment by Mondobubba on 11/08/2011 14:26:15
Comment by Mondobubba on 11/08/2011 14:27:51
Quote by Raine:
Quote by wickedpam:
you know I'm more inclined to believe the reports of sexual harassment because of where the stories are orginiating - Politico and the Examiner are rather right leaning media



Don't forget this memo from the NRA Now we know what was too hot to be emailed.



Part of me wonders if somebody's dirt diggers tipped Poltico about this. Say :cough:NewtGingrich:cough:

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 14:39:10

Tomb of the Unknown Guard Silences Disrespectful Crowd: MyFoxDC.com




Wow. Tomb of the Unknown Guard Silences Disrespectful Crowd




Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 14:39:49
Quote by Mondobubba:
Quote by Raine:
Quote by wickedpam:
you know I'm more inclined to believe the reports of sexual harassment because of where the stories are orginiating - Politico and the Examiner are rather right leaning media



Don't forget this memo from the NRA Now we know what was too hot to be emailed.



Part of me wonders if somebody's dirt diggers tipped Poltico about this. Say :cough:NewtGingrich:cough:
At this point, I think this was well known to a lot of people in DC.


Comment by wickedpam on 11/08/2011 14:48:06
I didn't know you weren't allowed to talk or anything at the tomb of the unknown

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 14:50:29
Quote by wickedpam:
I didn't know you weren't allowed to talk or anything at the tomb of the unknown
I think there was some inappropriate laughing going on. When I went there, it was very quiet and people whispered.

What shocked me was the Soldier breaking protocol.


Comment by Mondobubba on 11/08/2011 14:54:27
Quote by Raine:

Tomb of the Unknown Guard Silences Disrespectful Crowd: MyFoxDC.com




Wow. Tomb of the Unknown Guard Silences Disrespectful Crowd





Many years ago on windy winter's day, my dad took me to visit The Tomb of the Unknows and the graves of the Kennedy brothers. The rubber mat that the honor guard march on was blowing over. My father thought he would be helping if he staightened the mat out. he was wrong, he was firmly yet politely told to get back behind the ropes.

Comment by Mondobubba on 11/08/2011 14:56:15
Quote by Raine:
Quote by wickedpam:
I didn't know you weren't allowed to talk or anything at the tomb of the unknown
I think there was some inappropriate laughing going on. When I went there, it was very quiet and people whispered.

What shocked me was the Soldier breaking protocol.



They are allowed to break protocol if there is something they precieve as distrespectful to the Tomb and it's surroundings. See my last post.

Comment by TriSec on 11/08/2011 14:59:45
I could write an entire blog about this, actually.

I had to flee the Tomb myself, with a very young Javi (circa 2004) who decided he didn't want to watch anymore. I knew better than to try to quiet him down.

I'm not floored by the soldier breaking protocol as I am at somebody there laughing. Have we sunk so far, lost so much respect for our institutions, that whoever it was didn't stop to think for just one second that this might not be appropriate?

(And part of me secretly hopes the soldier is from Cambridge or San Francisco and had to silence a Texan, but I digress.)

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 15:03:54
Oh Mondo -- that must have been a bit embarrassing for your dad.

And Tri -- I'm not making excuses for the laughter -- I suspect it was a teenager being stupid.

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 15:06:11
There are signs there telling visitors what is expected of them.


Comment by Mondobubba on 11/08/2011 15:06:47
Quote by TriSec:
I could write an entire blog about this, actually.

I had to flee the Tomb myself, with a very young Javi (circa 2004) who decided he didn't want to watch anymore. I knew better than to try to quiet him down.

I'm not floored by the soldier breaking protocol as I am at somebody there laughing. Have we sunk so far, lost so much respect for our institutions, that whoever it was didn't stop to think for just one second that this might not be appropriate?

(And part of me secretly hopes the soldier is from Cambridge or San Francisco and had to silence a Texan, but I digress.)


That is a very good point, Tri. Some people just have bad home training and a lack of class.

Comment by Scoopster on 11/08/2011 15:08:47
Mornin' all..

Sorry I'm late - bus got a flat tire!

Comment by wickedpam on 11/08/2011 15:13:08
Quote by Mondobubba:
Quote by Raine:
Quote by wickedpam:
I didn't know you weren't allowed to talk or anything at the tomb of the unknown
I think there was some inappropriate laughing going on. When I went there, it was very quiet and people whispered.

What shocked me was the Soldier breaking protocol.



They are allowed to break protocol if there is something they precieve as distrespectful to the Tomb and it's surroundings. See my last post.



wow - they are very strict

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 15:17:57
Huckabee is such an idiot.

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 15:24:50
Quote by Raine:
Huckabee is such an idiot.

for those not listening to the show, they played this audio.

Comment by wickedpam on 11/08/2011 15:29:02
blame the victim - of course

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 15:29:23
BTW, the Freepers are saying that this woman who came forward HAD to be lying... you know why?


The steering wheel got in the way.

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 15:30:26
Damn -- What is with all the Gloria Allred hate?



Comment by wickedpam on 11/08/2011 15:30:41
Quote by Raine:
BTW, the Freepers are saying that this woman who came forward HAD to be lying... you know why?


The steering wheel got in the way.



idiots

Comment by wickedpam on 11/08/2011 15:31:21
Quote by Raine:
Damn -- What is with all the Gloria Allred hate?



she has been made out to be an ambulance chaser by some of the media over the years


Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 15:45:57
Well, this is awkward.
According to a Monday report in the French website "Arret sur Images," after facing reporters for a G20 press conference on Thursday, the two presidents retired to a private room, to further discuss the matters of the day.
(...)

The conversation then drifted to Netanyahu, at which time Sarkozy declared: "I cannot stand him. He is a liar." According to the report, Obama replied: "You're fed up with him, but I have to deal with him every day!"

The remark was naturally meant to be said in confidence, but the two leaders' microphones were accidently left on, making the would-be private comment embarrassingly public.


Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 15:49:38
Reuters picked up the story as well. (they tastefully left out the exclamation point... )

Comment by wickedpam on 11/08/2011 15:52:36
Quote by Raine:
Reuters picked up the story as well. (they tastefully left out the exclamation point... )



Obama's apparent failure to defend Netanyahu is likely to be leapt on by his Republican foes, who are looking to unseat him in next year's presidential election and have portrayed him as hostile to Israel, Washington's closest ally in the region.



That's what I was thinking

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 16:17:05
Quote by wickedpam:
Quote by Raine:
Reuters picked up the story as well. (they tastefully left out the exclamation point... )



Obama's apparent failure to defend Netanyahu is likely to be leapt on by his Republican foes, who are looking to unseat him in next year's presidential election and have portrayed him as hostile to Israel, Washington's closest ally in the region.



That's what I was thinking

I thought that too -- what is amazing to me is that Obama was actually very tactful when face with what Sarkozy said. (IOW: he didn't go all gossip girl... )

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 16:36:47
Voting done!

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 16:38:19
I LOVE voting.

Comment by Mondobubba on 11/08/2011 16:40:13
Quote by Raine:
Quote by wickedpam:
Quote by Raine:
Reuters picked up the story as well. (they tastefully left out the exclamation point... )



Obama's apparent failure to defend Netanyahu is likely to be leapt on by his Republican foes, who are looking to unseat him in next year's presidential election and have portrayed him as hostile to Israel, Washington's closest ally in the region.



That's what I was thinking

I thought that too -- what is amazing to me is that Obama was actually very tactful when face with what Sarkozy said. (IOW: he didn't go all gossip girl... )



Netanyahu being a prickly pear who people don't like doesn't mean Obama hates Isreal. Yeah I know, i'm not thinking like a winger.... Skates to penalty box:

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 16:43:59
Grassley is such a dope.
“It almost pains me — and please don’t take this away from Senator Grassley’s time — it pains me that, as you said, we had a private conversation, you sent me a handwritten note — that I took very seriously,” a visibly frustrated Holder responded.

“You and I have worked together on a variety of issues, I think I have a good relationship with you, you sent me a handwritten note that I looked at, took seriously, referred that letter to [the Office of Professional Responsibility] or the [Office of the Inspector General] — I’m not sure which of the two — and asked them to try to find out what happened,” Holder continued.

“I called you to try to indicate to you that I had taken that matter seriously, that action had been taken,” Holder said. “In a different time in Washington, I’m not sure that necessarily what you just said would have been shared with everyone here, but so be it, it’s a different time I suppose.”


Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 16:44:32
Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 16:45:49
Quote by Mondobubba:

Netanyahu being a prickly pear who people don't like doesn't mean Obama hates Isreal. Yeah I know, i'm not thinking like a winger.... Skates to penalty box:
Exactly.

I am pretty sure there were a LOT of leaders who could not stand Bush but still were our allies. Angela Merkel being one of them...


Comment by livingonli on 11/08/2011 16:50:26
Good morning everyone. After some cold days, it's back up in the 60's today. I guess we're getting another gasp of Indian Summer.

Comment by Raine on 11/08/2011 16:54:52
Comment by TriSec on 11/08/2011 16:58:12
News from the Girl Scouts...their centennial is next year!


Ruth Bramson, the chief executive of Girl Scouts of Eastern Massachusetts, wants to make one thing clear. “We’ll never give up the cookie badge.’’

But as Girl Scouts of the USA prepares to celebrate its 100th anniversary, the organization has revamped its badge lineup, and some - Looking Your Best, and From Fitness to Fashion, among them - have gotten the ax. Others, such as the cookie badge, made the cut, albeit with makeovers.

And some of the 136 badges sound more like topics trending on Twitter than something a fresh-faced girl would pin on her sash.

There’s a Good Credit badge and a Money Manager badge, Locavore, Website Designer, and Netiquette badges, a Science of Happiness badge, and, as a component of a cookie-badge program that has been expanded, a Customer Loyalty badge.

At a time when girls have many extracurricular options, the wide-ranging revamp - the first in 25 years - is an attempt to stay relevant.

“The girls said, ‘We love the camping, we love the cookies, but we want the Girl Scouts to be more about what we’re about,’ ’’ Bramson said.



Comment by Mondobubba on 11/08/2011 16:58:56


Comment by Scoopster on 11/08/2011 17:09:10
XKCD from yesterday is.... just... yeah.

btw don't forget to let your mouse cursor hover over the comic for the bonus blurb.