HAMLET, N.C.—When her son got his orders to head back to Iraq, Rosa Lamourt hatched her scheme to keep him stateside.
She didn't sleep much during the four months Spc. Jobel Barbosa spent in Iraq in 2004, driving a Bradley Infantry Fighting Vehicle with the North Carolina National Guard. The idea of her only son, born when she was just 15, spending an entire year overseas was too much.
So when Barbosa -- a 29-year-old single father -- asked his mother to care for his daughter Christian, as she'd done during his first deployment, she simply refused.
"I thought that if he didn't have anyone to watch (Christian), they wouldn't send him," Lamourt said recently. "Maybe they would say no."
Such wishful thinking often consumes the families of soldiers sent to war, whether they're full-time fighters or part-time warriors such as Barbosa and his fellow members of E Company, the engineer company of the 120th Combined Arms Battalion, 30th Heavy Brigade Combat Team. The unit from the tiny town of Hamlet, in southeastern North Carolina, left this weekend for four months of training ahead of a 12-month tour in Iraq.
As Lamourt's situation shows, reality inevitably sets in for the relatives. Her plan backfired when Barbosa's boss at the repair shop in Hamlet where he's a diesel mechanic volunteered to watch over Christian, a fourth-grader.
Lamourt quickly caved.
"There's no way I would let my baby live with a stranger," she said. "She's my first grandbaby."
And so, years after Jobel and his three sisters moved out, 9-year-old Christian moved in.
"It's like being a mom again," Lamourt said. "Imagine that."
BAGHDAD (Reuters) - Despite repeated warnings, U.S. officials blindly foisted a Western-style democracy on Iraq, helping plunge it into sectarian bloodshed and a political morass, a former U.S.-installed prime minister said on Monday.
"I told President Bush many times. I said we should not photocopy the model of the United States" in Iraq, Iyad Allawi, selected interim prime minister in 2004 by a council hand-picked by U.S. officials, said in an interview with Reuters.
"I said to (Bush and ex-British Prime Minister Tony Blair) categorically: 'Don't copy the Western model in Iraq; don't copy the Lebanese model; don't copy the Iranian model."
Allawi, a secular Shi'ite who led Iraq for nearly a year at a time when U.S. officials still held many levers of power, had a scathing assessment of Washington's management in close to six years since the U.S.-led invasion to oust Saddam Hussein.
Despite a sharp improvement from the horrific sectarian bloodshed of 2006 and 2007, Allawi described a country still held hostage to religious and ethnic rivalries, one in which ministries remain party fiefdoms and reconciliation is elusive.
"The decision to invade Iraq was a good decision, but unfortunately there have been grave mistakes that have been committed in parallel to liberation," he said, including the fateful U.S. decision in 2003 to purge government of members of Saddam's banned Baath party.
The instant unemployment of tens of thousands of Iraqis not only crippled the country's ability to govern itself but helped fuel a bloody insurgency.
By ignoring a strong tribal structure, interwoven by Sunnis, Shi'ites, Kurds and Turkmen, as they pieced together post-Saddam Iraq, he said U.S. officials allowed sectarian strife to grow.
"It was the wrong concept of doing things ... These are some of the real mistakes, grave mistakes, that have led the country to a great vacuum which we are suffering from after six years."
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Mornin' Mala & other 4Fers :coffee:
Hope that today is a good one for you all :D
Cheers,
mfaye
:hug: & :peace:
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Morning guys! :hug:
Mala would you like some hip waders to help you not get wet in all that bureaucracy? :D
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Umm.. so Harry Reid is now capitulating to seat Burris (who despite being a pretty decent guy on most accounts is really in a bad position with this appointment from Blago), but caving to demands that Al Franken (who is now OFFICIALLY certified as a Senator) not be seated.
Can we PLEASE get him out of the Majority Leader position?! NOW?!
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ugh! why is it when I do a google search on how to get an
"order to amend birth certificate" everything is transgender?
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Uhh.. yeah this is worse than Exxon Valdez and TMI combined.
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ugh! why is it when I do a google search on how to get an
"order to amend birth certificate" everything is transgender?
Mala -- have you gone to the website of the state you were born in?
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Umm.. so Harry Reid is now capitulating to seat Burris (who despite being a pretty decent guy on most accounts is really in a bad position with this appointment from Blago), but caving to demands that Al Franken (who is now OFFICIALLY certified as a Senator) not be seated.
Can we PLEASE get him out of the Majority Leader position?! NOW?!
I'm Shocked I tell you. shocked. <_<
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Uhh.. yeah this is worse than Exxon Valdez and TMI combined.
Ok, that scares me.
What does that make of the huge sludge spill a few weeks ago in Tennessee?
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ugh! why is it when I do a google search on how to get an
"order to amend birth certificate" everything is transgender?
Mala -- have you gone to the website of the state you were born in?
wasn't born in a state - was born in DC
the Vitial records site and person on the phone not really helpful - have to get either my elementary school records IF they spelled my name right from PA or I have to get a court order from VA to make DC amend/correct my birth certificate.
All of this over 1 letter wrong. and so I can get a passport for a possible trip in March
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Uhh.. yeah this is worse than Exxon Valdez and TMI combined.
Ok, that scares me.
What does that make of the huge sludge spill a few weeks ago in Tennessee?
It makes most of the TVA watershed area as hot as the area surrounding Chernobyl.
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ugh! why is it when I do a google search on how to get an
"order to amend birth certificate" everything is transgender?
Mala -- have you gone to the website of the state you were born in?
wasn't born in a state - was born in DC
the Vitial records site and person on the phone not really helpful - have to get either my elementary school records IF they spelled my name right from PA or I have to get a court order from VA to make DC amend/correct my birth certificate.
All of this over 1 letter wrong. and so I can get a passport for a possible trip in March
Guh. When I lost my Birth Certificate, it was actually easier for me to have my dad get a copy for me than it would have been for me to get a a copy.
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Thing was this wasn't a big deal until they started demanding all records match to the T. So because someone spelled it pamEla instead of what my mom wanted pamAla and all this new laws I have do all this
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Thing was this wasn't a big deal until they started demanding all records match to the T. So because someone spelled it pamEla instead of what my mom wanted pamAla and all this new laws I have do all this
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Thing was this wasn't a big deal until they started demanding all records match to the T. So because someone spelled it pamEla instead of what my mom wanted pamAla and all this new laws I have do all this
no I mean it to be an "A" on my birth ceritficate like it is on my ss card and my drivers license. Its how my name is supposed to be spelled.
The "e" is traditional but my wanted it a little different
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Umm.. so Harry Reid is now capitulating to seat Burris (who despite being a pretty decent guy on most accounts is really in a bad position with this appointment from Blago), but caving to demands that Al Franken (who is now OFFICIALLY certified as a Senator) not be seated.
Can we PLEASE get him out of the Majority Leader position?! NOW?!
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Thing was this wasn't a big deal until they started demanding all records match to the T. So because someone spelled it pamEla instead of what my mom wanted pamAla and all this new laws I have do all this
no I mean it to be an "A" on my birth ceritficate like it is on my ss card and my drivers license. Its how my name is supposed to be spelled.
The "e" is traditional but my wanted it a little different
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I am disgusted with Harry Reid. Seriously disgusted.
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Umm.. so Harry Reid is now capitulating to seat Burris (who despite being a pretty decent guy on most accounts is really in a bad position with this appointment from Blago), but caving to demands that Al Franken (who is now OFFICIALLY certified as a Senator) not be seated.
Can we PLEASE get him out of the Majority Leader position?! NOW?!
As I understand it (according to NPR), even if Al Franken is declared the winner by the SOS of MN, the certificate needs to be signed by someone in the Gov's office, and they've said they won't sign it if there are court actions in process, which there are.
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I am disgusted with Harry Reid. Seriously disgusted.
Can somebody challenge him? Take a look at Sal DiMasi up here in Massachusetts...there's a power struggle going on in the State House as we speak.
Sal is a corrupt little bastard that deserves to be expelled, though.
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Scoop, you're coming to DC too?
I declared myself in charge of smokes earlier (although we won't be able to get to Montreal for the *really* good stuff). You want I should bring you a seegar too?
I've heard from those in the know that many of the Domenicans are superior to the legacy Cuban brands these days, anyway.
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Does Momma EVER peruse the internets?