What is love? Author: TriSecDate:08/14/2010 12:59:25
Love has a rather lengthy entry at dictionary.com. While I won't quote all of it, some of the more key definitions follow.
a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.
a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.
sexual passion or desire.
to have love or affection for: All her pupils love her.
to have a profoundly tender, passionate affection for (another person).
to have a strong liking for; take great pleasure in: to love music.
to have love or affection for: All her pupils love her.
to have a profoundly tender, passionate affection for (another person).
to have a strong liking for; take great pleasure in: to love music.
Trying to explain what love is to someone, is another matter entirely. Why do I love my wife, or my child, or an inanimate hunk of aluminum and aero engines? I don't suppose I could really say with any clarity.
It's one of those mysteries of life, I suppose. By necessity, or design, perhaps nature has it hardwired among all living things that "opposites attract". But again, what makes an opposite? At a base level, there's the male/female divide. But love is much more than that. There's love that contrasts....love that complements...and sometimes love that defies all explanation.
Our friends on the right, and the ultra-religious always try to define love in terms of pro-creation. But I believe that to be more a product of society. The physical act is, in all honesty, rather a quick thing that can be done by just about any animal without having any attachment to their 'partner'. Most animals reproduce with little or no contact with each other after 'the act' is complete...although some do form lasting pair-bonds.
It's only man that has turned it into a ritualized, lifelong pairing that needs to be codified and recognized by an authority, whether it's the church, the state, or something else.
Love of any kind should be accepted, and celebrated for what it is. The determination of two people that they have some mutual affection and want to build that into a life together is a wonderful thing.
I think the best categorization is something a long-ago member of Air America Place once said. Their name has since eluded me, but the statement has not.
"I fell in love with a person, not their anatomy."
Today is Friday the 13th. For the superstitious, this day is considered one of the unluckiest of all. There are many theories that claim to explain the origins of the fear of the number 13 (Triskaidekaphobia), but there will never be any that can be called definitive (technically, fear of Friday the 13th specifically is called "Paraskavedekatriaphobia").
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64 comments(Latest Comment: 08/14/2010 00:42:45 by trojanrabbit)
I have spent the better part of this week contemplating the things that WH Robert Gibbs press secretary said in his interview with The Hill earlier this week.
And when I say contemplating, I truly mean it. I don't know if I completely disagree with what he said. An awful lot of people who consider themselves on the left are quite angry, and to a certain extent I don't blame them. That said, sometimes it is hard to hear things we don't like to hear. Continue reading...
28 comments(Latest Comment: 08/13/2010 01:05:42 by livingonli)
We heard the news yesterday that former Alaska senator Ted Stevens (R-AK) was killed in a plane crash in his home state. Like most career politicians, he was loved and hated and everything in between. Unlike some, however, his career had extremes in both directions.
Most people in America weren't really aware of Ted Stevens until he became infamous. First, was the Bridge To Nowhere, a project involving a bridge that would connect a small island to the mainland and eliminate the need for a ferry. It became the name and face of pork-barrel spending. It even became an issue in Sarah Palin's campaign (she was against it, but took the money anyway). One thing Ted Stevens was good at (and why he kept getting re-elected) was bringing federal money home to Alaska.
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19 comments(Latest Comment: 08/12/2010 03:22:38 by Raine)
Today is our 2,701st day in Iraq and our 3,217th day in Afghanistan.
We'll start this morning as we always do, with the latest casualty figures from our ongoing wars, courtesy of antiwar.com:
American Deaths Since war began (3/19/03): 4414 Since "Mission Accomplished" (5/1/03): 4275 Since Capture of Saddam (12/13/03): 3953 Since Handover (6/29/04): 3555 Since Obama Inauguration (1/20/09): 186
Other Coalition Troops - Iraq: 318 US Military Deaths - Afghanistan: 1,220 Other Military Deaths - Afghanistan: 770 Contractor Employee Deaths - Iraq: 1,457 Journalists - Iraq: 338 Academics Killed - Iraq: 437
We find this morning's cost of war passing through:
$ 1, 063, 350, 400, 000 .00
Perhaps you've been following the fire stories out of Russia with interest. Moscow has been shrouded in smoke for days....the wheat crop is failing due to the ongoing drought, and most dangerous of all, the forested areas around the Chernobyl nuclear accident site are under threat of burning, which may or may not release more radiation into the atmosphere.
Yesterday, I had the chance to see a little of Representative Mike Pence on Meet the Press, with David Gregory. Thankfully, so did Think Progress. Both John Boehner and Mike Pence have shown that the GOP Have no idea how to cut the deficit. They also are complaining about things that they themselves have blocked. Continue reading...
31 comments(Latest Comment: 08/10/2010 01:46:41 by TriSec)
Whew! Velveeta has the internets back up just in time. Due to a storm, we lost it most of last night. And now...... I must go to my fabulous low-paying, non-union, uber-corporate JOB.
.......... UG. Well, At least I have one.
Speaking of getting the shaft and unions, here's a story to discuss:
Considering the current economic climate it was really surprising or maybe not , the union representing Milwaukee teachers went to court to fight for free Viagra under their health insurance plan. The Associated Press broke the story to today the union is asking for all erectile dysfunction medicine to be covered at no cost to union members. The cost per pill is $20. The district is quoted in the article that the benefit is estimated to cost $786,000. That is enough to fund 12 entry level teacher positions.
Lawyer for the union Barbara Quindel said she thought the case was worth fighting for even though the finances of the district were "grim". Almost 500 teachers were laid off at the end of the 2010 school year. Later 89 teachers were rehired. The reason for the layoffs is the district budget shortfall. The union could have saved the jobs if they had switched to the State of Wisconsin program or paid a small amount more for their premiums. They currently have a Cadillac plan for which they make very little contribution. The union lost an arbitrator decision in 2008 regarding providing Viagra. Employees in the current State of Wisconsin program do not have this benefit because drugs like Viagra are considered "lifestyle enhancements." The union claims the drugs are necessary to treat " an exclusively gender related condition".
While I don't appreciate the snarkiness of this "reporter", I do agree that this Union is being absurd. I mean........ come on!
6 comments(Latest Comment: 08/09/2010 01:06:06 by velveeta jones)
I spend over a half an hour typing up a Saturday Magnum Opus, then when I hit "preview" it all went away.
This is the second saturday this has happened....I was nervous about "Ask a Vet" this past week, but it stuck.
Anyone else had this happen?
I'm not going to try to recover anything now; we'll soon be heading out to me mum's for a birthday party. My neice turned 12 yesterday and wanted a pool party this year...looks like the weather will be ideal!
5 comments(Latest Comment: 08/07/2010 21:18:52 by trojanrabbit)
A few thoughts that have occupied my mind over the past couple of weeks:
How soon do you think it'll be before "The Simpsons" do a Glenn Beck reference on the blackboard in the opening credits?
It's quite a thing to hear the decision striking down Prop 8 in California, then turning the channel and seeing one Georgia GOP gubernatorial candidate attack another for supporting a center for gay youth.
It's still another to hear that supposedly gay friendly candidate totally dismiss her earlier support as just politics.
It's always an odd thing to hear conservative pundits poo-pooh the idea of environmentally conscious vehicles and other Earth-saving solutions for the home, road, and air. Seems like, in addition to the ecological benefits, it could create many, many new jobs here in the US and make beaucoup bucks for the people who institute these technologies. Shouldn't we be encouraging American know-how to solve these problems instead of figuring out how to put an extra large cup holder in next year's Ford Expedition?
I think we are reaching a saturation point of conservatives calling the Obama administration and Congress "socialists" "communists" "subversives" and "Bolsheviks". You can only throw charges like that around for so long before people start to tire of it, and I think that unless GOP congressional leaders present actual alternatives to Democratic proposals, they're going to be rather shocked come November.
The leak has been capped. Hooray! Now, can we clean up the oil on the beaches and honestly determine what's happening to all the spillage at sea?
That's all I've got. Gotta get back to work; have fun and remember to tip your servers!
31 comments(Latest Comment: 08/06/2010 22:40:10 by Will in Chicago)
Yesterday Evening, U.S. District Chief Judge Vaughn Walker struck down Proposition 8, passed by voters in 2008, which prohibited same-sex couples from marrying in California. The case is expected to go before the U.S. 9th Circuit Court of Appeals and then onward to the U.S. Supreme Court.
Until then, and after a 2 day stay, it seems that everyone in California can get married. Continue reading...
63 comments(Latest Comment: 08/05/2010 21:17:01 by clintster)
